Black Rose Munch
2026-07-28 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-08-04 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-08-11 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-08-18 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-08-25 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-09-01 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-09-08 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-09-15 18:30 - 20:00 (America/New_York) and 11 more dates | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Join us before Tuesday Education for our BYOD (Bring Your Own Dinner) Munch! Bring a brown bag from home or your favorite takeout to the Crucible and get to know people before class. Come enjoy food, fun discussions, and meet like-minded folks.

Know Before You Heaux: Vetting 101 with Sir Push Ur Limitz and BiteMeThere
2026-07-28 20:00 - 21:30
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Know Before You Heaux: Vetting 101 is a candid discussion between Sir PushUrLimitz and BiteMeThere about protecting your peace, your body, your reputation, and your time. We’ll dig into the realities of navigating kink spaces, from spotting red flags and verifying reputations to understanding how manipulation, performative dominance, and community dynamics can complicate even the most seasoned kinkster’s judgment.
During this discussion, we’ll explore

The fundamentals of effective vetting (online and in-person)
Why gatekeeping is dangerous
How predators, opportunists, and “role players” slip through the cracks
Why experience can sometimes make people less cautious
Building trusted networks and using community knowledge wisely
Asking the hard questions that protect you before you play

Come ready for Real Talk, shared experiences, and practical tools to help you move through kink spaces with clarity and confidence.
All skill levels/kink levels are welcome; This is a great class for newbies to the scene as well as veterans, as a refresher course.
Total time: 90 minutes
This class will involve participation from the crowd, where we hope we can invite people to ask questions and share their own stories of vetting wins or fails. We want everyone to walk away with a renewed sense of confidence in their vetting process.

Presenter Bio
I have been known as BiteMeThere for the last 15 years. My path in the kink space has been anything but linear. My journey has largely centered around building communities where people who look like me can thrive. Through my writings, teaching, and community engagement, I continue to explore the intersections of power dynamics, service, vulnerability, and what it means to trust. I value honest conversations that allow room for feedback in its many forms; it will always be my goal to build intentional relationships that propel this community, our community, forward in a positive way.I believe that kink is best experienced when all participants are given the space and freedom to be seen, heard, respected, and safe to explore their pleasure.
Widely known as Sir PUL, he is a Male Dominant Heterosexual Leather (MDHL f/s) with more than 14 years of experience in the lifestyle. Recognized as a Sensual Sadist, Daddy, Protector, and Educator, he is deeply committed to mentorship, communication, and personal growth within the community. A proud member of the NASSORS Leather Brotherhood, he also serves as a host and producer for Black & Kinky DC, helping create safer spaces for education, exploration, and fellowship throughout the DMV area. Originally beginning his journey in New York City, Sir PUL has remained active in community projects and events across the East Coast. Guided by the belief that “none of us is as smart as all of us,” he continues to prioritize learning, leadership, and connection within the lifestyle.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

BR Gateway - August 2026
2026-08-06 19:45 - 21:30
Black Rose (BR) Gateway is a great way to get a lot of information about the local kink community before you commit any unintentional faux pax because everyone (except you) knew about the community and social expectations.
We cover topics ranging from from Consent to Privacy, Negotiations to Aftercare, and ensure that everyone is aware of our aggressive stand against certain types of behaviors. You can learn more about what you can expect from BR Gateway by reading:

Thinking about attending Black Rose Gateway (overview of the program)
Gateway Attendee FAQ

BR Gateway and Dungeon 101 work together like a lecture/lab combination class; you can get a lot from attending either one, but you can get a lot more by attending both.
Gateway is in person at The Crucible.

BR Gateway entry is only available for purchase at the door; Dungeon 101 tickets are the same. You cannot purchase D101 entry at BR Gateway.
ASL Interpreters are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks notice.
Email gateway@br.org for more information about this program, or info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its other events.

Dungeon 101
2026-08-07 19:30 - 23:59, 2026-09-04 19:30 - 23:59, 2026-10-02 19:30 - 23:59, 2026-11-06 19:30 - 23:59, 2026-12-04 19:30 - 23:59
Dungeon 101 serves as an introduction into public BDSM play. If you have never attended a public BDSM play event, it can be a bit daunting. The Dungeon 101 class is specifically designed to make you feel comfortable at your first public BDSM dungeon event. Attendees and presenters come from a diverse cross section of the community, all orientations, genders and kinks are welcome. You are welcome to come alone, bring a friend or bring a bunch of friends.
From 7:30 until 8:00 PM will be social time. Starting at 8:00 PM, there will be a talk on scene etiquette and an opportunity to learn about the dungeon itself. Directly following will be a “Exploratorium” event until 11:00 PM where you can try and/or experience many different kinds of play scenes. The idea is for it to be a fun evening for everyone!
No advance tickets are available for this event – please plan to arrive early and pay at the door.

$10 with Gateway card,
$25 members with membership card,
$35 all others
More experienced folk come on out after 11:00 PM for Open Play. We ask that everyone except presenters keep their toy bags put away until Open Play starts to avoid confusion. No scenes or play permitted during the Exploratorium.

This is an outreach event, you do not need to be a BR or Crucible member to attend.
In order to foster a learning environment, there is no sex allowed at Dungeon 101, and no alcohol is sold. This applies all night, even during open play after the Exploratorium has concluded.
You must be at least 18 years of age. Government-issued photo ID required for entry.

BR Gateway - September 2026
2026-09-03 19:45 - 21:30

BR Gateway - October 2026
2026-10-01 19:45 - 21:30

BR Gateway - November 2026
2026-11-05 19:45 - 21:30

BR Gateway - December 2026
2026-12-03 19:45 - 21:30
