Black Rose

Board Meeting
2025-10-13 19:30, 2025-11-10 19:30, 2025-12-08 19:30 (America/New_York) | Zoom, DC, United States
Please email info@br.org if you would like to attend.

Black Rose Munch
2025-10-14 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-10-21 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-10-28 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-11-04 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-11-11 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-11-18 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-11-25 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-12-02 18:30 - 20:00 and 1 more date | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Join us before Tuesday Education for our BYOD (Bring Your Own Dinner) Munch! Bring a brown bag from home or your favorite takeout to the Crucible and get to know people before class. Come enjoy food, fun discussions, and meet like-minded folks.

Fear Play Formulas: Psychosocial Approach to Trust & Terror with CarmenMonoxide
2025-10-14 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
Inducing and experiencing fear happens differently depending on the level of intimacy between players– this class covers varied approaches for introducing fear into your play with the different people in your life.
Presenter Bio
A former teacher with a lifelong passion for the bizarre and filthy, Carmen Monoxide (she/they) also works as a kink professional, event organizer, sex educator, and relationship coach. She has presented for small, medium, and large events across North America. She founded Femme Fatale, a kink event company, and throws monthly parties in the Washington, DC area. She sometimes takes her clothes off and performs onstage and on camera, and is passionate about helping people overcome fear and shame in order to have authentic, fulfilling, sexy experiences.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Kink While BIPOC Panel Discussion Facilitated by Mo
2025-10-21 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
Join us for a candid and affirming conversation centering the experiences of BIPOC individuals within the kink community. This panel brings together a diverse group of Black, Indigenous, and People of Color to share personal stories, reflections, and insights on navigating kink as part of their full, complex identities.
From finding belonging and joy in kink spaces to navigating cultural expectations and building affirming connections, panelists will explore how race, heritage, and kink intersect in unique and powerful ways. Whether you’re curious, questioning, or fully immersed, this conversation offers space to learn, connect, and celebrate the richness of BIPOC presence in kink.
Navigating Identity and Cultural Expectations
Panelists may explore how their cultural or familial backgrounds shape their relationship to kink, sexuality, and bodily autonomy. This includes navigating shame, secrecy, or silence in communities where open conversations about desire may be rare—and how individuals have found ways to reclaim and redefine pleasure on their own terms.
Representation and Community Building
The conversation may highlight the importance of representation in kink spaces—seeing other BIPOC individuals in roles of dominance, submission, leadership, or creative expression—and the power of finding or creating community that reflects your lived experience. Panelists might share how they’ve cultivated spaces of affirmation, safety, and mutual understanding, both online and in person.
Joy, Play, and Liberation
Beyond challenges, the panel will make space for joy—discussing the freedom, creativity, and healing that kink can offer. Expect reflections on how kink can be a source of empowerment, a way to explore identity in expansive ways, and a practice of pleasure and play rooted in self-determination.
Consent, Boundaries, and Racial Dynamics
Panelists may also share how they navigate consent and communication in scenes that involve mixed racial dynamics—the setting of clear boundaries, or addressing moments of discomfort or harm. This includes discussions of how to uphold agency and safety while exploring complex power exchanges.
Advice for BIPOC Newcomers
To close, the panel might offer insight or encouragement for BIPOC individuals new to the kink scene—naming practical ways to find community, avoid tokenization, and engage in kink practices that feel affirming, safe, and exciting. Whether through mentorship, events, or personal exploration, the message will be clear: you belong.
Facilitator Bio
Mo or @MoProblems (any/all) is a queer genderfluid kinkster entering a second year in the local DC scene. Mo has been exploring what it means to exist on both sides of the slash. A frequent student of Black Rose, Mo is a new presenter with a decade of experience as a trainer and coach, and nearly 20 years of experience with both sides of a blowjob.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

New and Curious Kinksters
2025-10-23 18:30 - 20:00 | Zoom, DC, United States
Black Rose’s New and Curious Kinksters (or NaCK), is a discussion group designed for people who are new(ish) to the scene. While we highly recommend all new kinksters check out Gateway (the first/last Thursday of each month – always the day before D101) and Dungeon 101 (the first Friday of each month) and come with questions about their experiences, it is not required, and we welcome anyone new to kink. Please note NaCK is for asking questions, there will be no presentation or monologuing.
We meet the 4th Thursday of the month from 6:30 to 8:00pm. We are going to try out having virtual NaCK. I know many of us have Zoom fatigue, but this is a more responsible approach. We’ll chat about whatever comes up – everything from “what do I wear to the club?” to “I had this great scene, but this part didn’t go well. What do you suggest?” NaCK has a rotating group of experienced kinksters come in to answer questions, so the discussion is always a little bit different, and we aim to provide a variety of answers from different D/s roles, genders, races, and backgrounds.
If you are still in the beginning of your kink journey, we hope you’ll come join us to ask questions and share advice. We’d love to have you!

Black Rose Presents: A Villainous Halloween
2025-10-24 21:00 - 23:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Join us this month for Black Rose Presents: A Villainous Halloween. RSVP here!
Its that wonderful time of the year! Its time for spooky, its time for costumes and of course, its time for CANDY!
Dress up as your favorite fictional villain, together we can all plot to take over the world!
This is an 18+ event!

Black Rose/Crucible Members: $25
Guests:$35
You must be a Crucible or Black Rose member or the guest of a member to attend.
Doors open at 9PM
There will be non-alcoholic beverages available for purchase, and plenty of complementary snacks.
Black Rose seeks to empower the community and celebrates diversity in gender, race, sexual orientation, and abilities. We seek to foster an open and warm environment for all.
Have questions about Black Rose? Find a friendly face at the social and chat them up! Interested in becoming a Black Rose Member? (you totally should) Click here!
Masks are always welcome.

A Starting Point: Needle Play 101 with Willow
2025-10-28 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
This class will get you started with sharps safety and clean technique for the use of needles in surface piercing play. Willow will cover many practical questions like “how do you hold a needle” or where to get supplies and will also introduce the mental and emotional elements on both sides of this versatile arena of play. Live demonstration will feature step by step narration and will include elements of both decorative and sadistic play.
Presenter Bio
Willow is a queer sadomasochistic switch who will never tire of rope, sharps, or pressure points. Equally happy with a goofy, laugh-out-loud or nail-bitingly intense scene, kink is a core part of who he is and what he does. He has a flair for getting others hooked with his approachable, engaging, and always entertaining teaching style. Willow shares his infectious excitement through a wide variety of hands-on classes, and has garnered an international following via online education during the pandemic, which you can see alongside his other shenanigans on Patreon and Fetlife: https://linktr.ee/TheWillowShow
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

D/s Discussion Group: Modifying D/s when things comes up
2025-11-03 18:30 - 21:00 | TJ Library, 7415 Arlington Blvd, Falls Church, 22042, United States
RSVP on Fet now!
Come one and all to a group for the discussion of any and all topics D and s. This group is intended to be a resource for people of all levels of experience and, as such, everyone is encouraged to attend. Please bring all questions you may have about D/s, M/s, rituals, victuals, brats, splats, and mats.
The topic of tonight’s discussion is Modifying D/s When Things Come Up. Things happen in life, and sometimes relationships have to evolve. How do we manage this and keep everyone as comfortable and safe as possible? Although there is a topic for the discussion, given the intent of this group to be a place for sharing, we will not be strict about keeping to the topic.
For this event, we will be hosting at the Thomas Jefferson Library in West Falls Church. We will be in Meeting Rooms 1 and 2. Light refreshments are permitted in the meeting rooms.
Please RSVP as Going if you want to go!

From Passion to Presentation: Teach What You Know with Clarity and Confidence with Noire LeGrande
2025-11-04 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
You know your stuff—but can you teach it? Whether you’re stepping into your first presentation or refining your approach after years of community teaching, this interactive workshop will help you share your ideas with clarity, confidence, and impact. Many passionate kink and alternative sexuality educators know their material deeply—but that doesn’t always translate into effective planning or delivery, especially for adult learners.
Designed for both new and experienced presenters, this session offers practical strategies for building inclusive, engaging presentations that connect. You’ll leave with tools to plan, deliver, and grow—whether you’re teaching a single class or building a workshop series.
This workshop is intentionally content-rich—not to overwhelm, but to plant seeds you can return to as you grow. We’ll cover adult learning principles, common teaching pitfalls, session structure, accessibility, and interaction.
You’ll also practice navigating real-world teaching challenges—like nerves, tough questions, and unexpected disruptions—with calm and confidence. Peer connection and feedback are built in, giving you space to reflect, refine, and step forward with purpose.
Whether your goal is to teach one great class or develop a full presenter portfolio, this session will help you get there.
Participants will explore how to:
• Choose the right session format and structure
• Use backward design to create focused, learner-centered sessions
• Engage adult learners through accessible, interactive delivery
• Plan for technology hiccups and diverse accessibility needs
• Navigate emotional triggers, challenges to authority, and in-the-moment teaching stressors
• Build confidence through rehearsal, peer connection, and self-critique
• Request and apply feedback to improve future presentations
• Feel empowered to reach out to conferences and organizations with confidence
Learning Objectives
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
– Reflect on personal motivations and how they shape teaching presence
– Identify the core components of an effective and engaging presentation
– Apply key principles of adult learning and accessibility
– Choose the most appropriate session format for their content and goals
– Apply backward design to structure focused and learner-centered sessions
– Integrate interactive, inclusive, and accessible elements into their delivery
– Build confidence through practical strategies, rehearsal, and peer feedback
– Handle real-time challenges with professionalism and composure
– Use feedback and peer networking to refine and grow as a presenter
Attendees will leave with a planning toolkit that supports their continued growth as clear, confident, and compelling community educators.
This session is ideal for both experienced and aspiring presenters who are passionate about their content and want to improve their presentation skills. Designed with newer educators, facilitators, and community leaders in mind—this workshop also offers valuable insights for seasoned practitioners looking to refresh their approach or support others in becoming confident educators.
Participants should come prepared with note-taking materials and questions or ideas they have for classes they want to teach.
Presenter Bio
Noire LeGrande is a seasoned facilitator with over 20 years of experience in the public sector, where she has coached, supported, and evaluated adults in developing their skills as effective educators and leaders. Known for her approachable style and empowering presence, Noire is passionate about helping presenters elevate their voice and deliver sessions that audiences enjoy and remember. A long-time member of the kink community, she brings both professional expertise and lived experience to her work supporting emerging educators in alternative spaces.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

BR Gateway - November 2025
2025-11-06 19:45 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Black Rose (BR) Gateway is a great way to get a lot of information about the local kink community before you commit any unintentional faux pax because everyone (except you) knew about the community and social expectations.
We cover topics ranging from from Consent to Privacy, Negotiations to Aftercare, and ensure that everyone is aware of our aggressive stand against certain types of behaviors. You can learn more about what you can expect from BR Gateway by reading:

Thinking about attending Black Rose Gateway (overview of the program)
Gateway Attendee FAQ

BR Gateway and Dungeon 101 work together like a lecture/lab combination class; you can get a lot from attending either one, but you can get a lot more by attending both.
Gateway is in person at The Crucible.

BR Gateway entry is only available for purchase at the door; Dungeon 101 tickets are the same. You cannot purchase D101 entry at BR Gateway.
ASL Interpreters are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks notice.
Email gateway@br.org for more information about this program, or info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its other events.

Dungeon 101
2025-11-07 19:30 - 23:59, 2025-12-05 19:30 - 23:59 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Dungeon 101 serves as an introduction into public BDSM play. If you have never attended a public BDSM play event, it can be a bit daunting. The Dungeon 101 class is specifically designed to make you feel comfortable at your first public BDSM dungeon event. Attendees and presenters come from a diverse cross section of the community, all orientations, genders and kinks are welcome. You are welcome to come alone, bring a friend or bring a bunch of friends.
From 7:30 until 8:00 PM will be social time. Starting at 8:00 PM, there will be a talk on scene etiquette and an opportunity to learn about the dungeon itself. Directly following will be a “Exploratorium” event until 11:00 PM where you can try and/or experience many different kinds of play scenes. The idea is for it to be a fun evening for everyone!
No advance tickets are available for this event – please plan to arrive early and pay at the door.

$10 with Gateway card,
$25 members with membership card,
$35 all others
More experienced folk come on out after 11:00 PM for Open Play. We ask that everyone except presenters keep their toy bags put away until Open Play starts to avoid confusion. No scenes or play permitted during the Exploratorium.

This is an outreach event, you do not need to be a BR or Crucible member to attend.
In order to foster a learning environment, there is no sex allowed at Dungeon 101, and no alcohol is sold. This applies all night, even during open play after the Exploratorium has concluded.
You must be at least 18 years of age. Government-issued photo ID required for entry.

Tickle SIG play party
2025-11-08 12:00 - 17:00 | Tickle SIG Herndon location, Herndon, VA, United States
Come laugh with us!
We ask all participants to review the rules and “What to Expect at a TickleSIG” party in the Tickle DC – Washington Metro Area Ticking group.
Tickle SIG party begins at noon and goes til 5pm on the 2nd Saturday of each month. Bring a pot luck dish – maybe even something inspired by Thanksgiving – and your toy bag.
No alcohol, smoking or drugs are permitted, and you must be fully vaccinated for COVID.
Whether you are new to tickling or experienced, you are welcome to join in on the fun.

Creating Intimacy and Connection within a Rope Scene with Sam
2025-11-11 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
So you know how to tie a single column, maybe you can even throw on a harness… but past patterns and knots, there is a lovely person at the end of our ropes…
so how do we go from just using our technical skills, to creating a real connection with the person you’re tying? Whether you’re new, experienced, tying someone for the first time or with your established rope partner, this class will show you ways and concepts to create impactful intimacy in your rope scenes and beyond.
Rope is the conduit, connection is the goal.
Purpose: Teaching skills & concepts to Rope tops & switches on how to create connection in and out of a rope scene.
Structure will be a mix of lecture, Demoing, and some exercises for participants.
I would recommend folks bring at least 1-2 hanks of rope, and shears/cutting device.
Skill level: Any, preferably at least comfortable tying a single column of their choice.
Presenter Bio
Sam (they/them) is a queer, non-binary, neurodivergent, rope-obsessed goblin with a great love for movement, all things touch, and learning the what/why/how of connection between beings. Basically, an intimacy slut. They’ve been a rope bottom for 7 years, switch/self-tier/Top for 2 years, and a kinkster longer than that.
As a certified Professional Cuddler, they are passionate about touch rooted in consent and pleasure, and will scream from the rooftops about how connection is vital to healing and living a joyful life.
This goblin helps perpetuate the rope bottom to self tier to Top pipeline and is proud of it.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Planning and Executing High Concept Scenes with Skeleton_Bitch
2025-11-18 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
Some scenes go beyond impact, bondage, or roleplay. They become immersive experiences. High concept scenes are built on strong ideas, careful planning, and the ability to weave story, sensation, and psychology into a cohesive whole. This workshop is for kinksters who want to bring their most ambitious visions to life without losing sight of negotiation, safety, or playfulness.
We’ll cover:
How to take a big idea (fantasy, narrative, aesthetic) and translate it into a workable scene
Negotiation techniques for complex or multi-layered dynamics
Time, space, and prop management to support immersive play
Balancing intensity with sustainability, pacing, and aftercare
Tips for adapting when things don’t go as planned. without breaking the scene
Whether you’re inspired by theater, film, ritual, or pure imagination, this class will give you the tools to plan, execute, and adapt high concept scenes that leave everyone involved feeling connected, transformed, and satisfied.
Presenter Bio
Skeleton_Bitch (they/he/she), aka Lizzie, aka Picasso of Pain, is a disabled, genderfluid dominant/sadist/artist. They are one of the hosts of the monthly queer-centered play party, @qinkdc, and the Director of Education for @br_BlackRose. They have been participating in kink since 2006 and part of the DMV kink community since 2022. They have been navigating the nuances of being kinky while living with multiple chronic illnesses and being autistic with ADHD (AuDHD) and what that means for them as a dominant, top, and organizer. They also love artistic, high-concept scenes that bring various media and forms of expression to play.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Coping Skills and Emotional Awareness with Heart
2025-11-25 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Understanding your feelings and their reasons, as well as managing them to prevent them from becoming overwhelming, can sometimes feel like navigating without a map. This can hinder your progress and focus, much like driving without directions.
In this class we’ll talk about states of mind and how they affect your responses, practice self-soothing and troubleshooting skills, and gain valuable insights into navigating heightened emotional situations that you may encounter during your journey.
Please note: This class involves optional participation and respectful, high-level discussions about potentially activating topics.
Presenter Bio
heart (she/they) is a polyamorous neurodivergent switch who started in the DC swinger and kink scenes in 2018. Now predominantly active in the local kink community, she serves as a volunteer with several groups and as an organizer of two play parties at the Crucible.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Black Rose Presents: Black Rose Black Friday Black Light Party
2025-11-28 21:00 - 23:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Join us this month for Black Rose Presents: Black Rose Black Friday Black Light Party. RSVP here!
This is an 18+ event!

Black Rose/Crucible Members: $25
Guests:$35
You must be a Crucible or Black Rose member or the guest of a member to attend.
Doors open at 9PM
There will be non-alcoholic beverages available for purchase, and plenty of complementary snacks.
Black Rose seeks to empower the community and celebrates diversity in gender, race, sexual orientation, and abilities. We seek to foster an open and warm environment for all.
Have questions about Black Rose? Find a friendly face at the social and chat them up! Interested in becoming a Black Rose Member? (you totally should) Click here!
Masks are always welcome.

Community Outreach: Your Privacy Online with Alex McGeorge
2025-12-02 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
The changing US political landscape along with our ever increasing integration with various types of computing has many concerned about their privacy and anonymity. This class details common sense steps you can take to increase your privacy, security, and anonymity while doing such previously mundane things as: looking at porn, crossing borders, booking medical appointments, attending political actions, simply existing in America! I will only cover topics related to personal security, anything that would generally be covered by a business or organization paying a consultant is off limits.
Presenter Bio
Alex McGeorge has been involved with BDSM in the DMV for a truly boring amount of time. He currently is best known as co-organizer and event runner for The Crucible’s Dungeon 101. Alex has taught on spanking since 2012 through Dungeon 101 and at events for Black Rose, FetFest, CLAW Getaway 2022 and internationally. When not enjoying the suffering of others Alex works on the offensive side of computer security for a cloud provider, enjoys running around in nature and sometimes indulging in his compulsion to get into places he’s not supposed to be.
This is a community outreach event and attendance is free of charge to current members and folks newer to Black Rose.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

BR Gateway - December 2025
2025-12-04 19:45 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States

Bottom, Know Thy Self with Willow
2025-12-09 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
In a sea of classes that teach tops which end of the flogger to hold, we are turning the spotlight on the other half of the equation!
No two bottoms are alike and the standard negotiation checklist of who is hitting who, with what, and where, leaves much of desire unaddressed, and worse, often assumes you already know exactly what you like!
Join Willow and Marti for a class which will help you to figure out the nitty gritty of what you like and how you like it, and how to effectively communicate what you want.
Examples in class will include a wide range of kinks, and by request will include a focus on rope bondage.
Tops: this is your opportunity to listen for insight into your partners’ experience- work better, together!
Presenter Bio
Willow is a queer sadomasochistic switch who will never tire of rope, sharps, or pressure points. Equally happy with a goofy, laugh-out-loud or nail-bitingly intense scene, kink is a core part of who he is and what he does. He has a flair for getting others hooked with his approachable, engaging, and always entertaining teaching style. Willow shares his infectious excitement through a wide variety of hands-on classes, and has garnered an international following via online education during the pandemic, which you can see alongside his other shenanigans on Patreon and Fetlife: https://linktr.ee/TheWillowShow

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org
