Black Rose

Board Meeting
2026-05-11 19:30, 2026-04-13 19:30 (America/New_York) | Zoom, DC, United States
Please email info@br.org if you would like to attend.

Tickle SIG play party
2026-05-09 12:00 - 17:00, 2026-04-11 12:00 - 17:00 | Tickle SIG Herndon location, Herndon, VA, United States
Come laugh with us!
We ask all participants to review the rules and “What to Expect at a TickleSIG” party in the Tickle DC – Washington Metro Area Ticking group.
Tickle SIG party begins at noon and goes til 5pm on the 2nd Saturday of each month. Bring a pot luck dish – maybe even something inspired by Thanksgiving – and your toy bag.
No alcohol, smoking or drugs are permitted, and you must be fully vaccinated for COVID.
Whether you are new to tickling or experienced, you are welcome to join in on the fun.

RESCHEDULED: BR Gateway - May 2026
2026-05-07 19:45 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Note: The May Gateway is on April 30th May 7th!
Due to a scheduling conflict, we’ve had to move this event back a week
Black Rose (BR) Gateway is a great way to get a lot of information about the local kink community before you commit any unintentional faux pax because everyone (except you) knew about the community and social expectations.
We cover topics ranging from from Consent to Privacy, Negotiations to Aftercare, and ensure that everyone is aware of our aggressive stand against certain types of behaviors. You can learn more about what you can expect from BR Gateway by reading:

Thinking about attending Black Rose Gateway (overview of the program)
Gateway Attendee FAQ

BR Gateway and Dungeon 101 work together like a lecture/lab combination class; you can get a lot from attending either one, but you can get a lot more by attending both.
Gateway is in person at The Crucible.

BR Gateway entry is only available for purchase at the door; Dungeon 101 tickets are the same. You cannot purchase D101 entry at BR Gateway.
ASL Interpreters are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks notice.
Email gateway@br.org for more information about this program, or info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its other events.

Meet The Candidates
2026-05-05 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Come one, come all to an informative affair: Meet the Candidates Night!
This is YOUR chance to learn more about your potential future Board Members Arbiter, and Ombuds. You have a voice, use it to ask the candidates about their community values and what they see for the future of Black Rose.
Ask your questions so you can be an informed voter for this year’s elections.

Black Rose Munch
2026-05-05 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-04-28 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-04-21 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-04-14 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-04-07 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-03-31 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-03-24 18:30 - 20:00 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Join us before Tuesday Education for our BYOD (Bring Your Own Dinner) Munch! Bring a brown bag from home or your favorite takeout to the Crucible and get to know people before class. Come enjoy food, fun discussions, and meet like-minded folks.

D/s Discussion Group: Expectations in Power Exchange
2026-05-04 18:30 - 21:00 | TJ Library, 7415 Arlington Blvd, Falls Church, 22042, United States
RSVP on Fet now!
Come one and all to a group for the discussion of any and all topics D and s. This group is intended to be a resource for people of all levels of experience and, as such, everyone is encouraged to attend. Please bring all questions you may have about D/s, M/s, rituals, victuals, brats, splats, and mats.
The topic of tonight’s discussion is Expectations and Measures of Success in D/s. Power exchange in particular is one of those things people think they can be “bad at”. But how do you get good? What does “good” even mean? Although there is a topic for the discussion, given the intent of this group to be a place for sharing, we will not be strict about keeping to the topic.
For this event, we will be hosting at the Thomas Jefferson Library in West Falls Church. We will be in Meeting Rooms 1 and 2. Light refreshments are permitted in the meeting rooms.
Please RSVP as Going if you want to go!

Intensive: Elevation: Rope Suspension 101 with Various Instructors
2026-05-02 13:00 - 18:00 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Please join us on Saturday, May 2nd from 1:30 PM to 6:00 PM for Black Rose Education Intensive Series: Elevation: Rope Suspension 101 with SuspendDisbelief, AutomataBound, and Nijntje!
Introducing the Black Rose Education Intensives Series
Black Rose Education Intensive Series is a new quarterly program built for deeper dives into kink. These extended sessions pair in-depth instruction with hands-on practice and lab time, creating space for intentional learning and skill development beyond a single evening class.
Schedule
1:00 pm: Doors open
1:30 pm – 3:00 pm: Suspension Curriculum Part 1: Technique Basics/ Bottom’s Discussion Group
3:00 – 3:30 pm: Break
3:30 pm – 5:00 pm: Suspension Curriculum Part 2: Technique Application
5:00 – 6:00 pm: Labbing

Intensive Class Descriptions
Due to the nature of this intensive, no late admissions will be accepted. Please show up on time to take advantage of the full curriculum.
This scaffolded 2-part curriculum introduces students to the basics of rope suspension! While there is no “one true way” to do rope, AutomataBound and SuspendDisbelief will teach some basic tried and true techniques as well as the safety trade-offs involved for your risk assessment needs. Whether you want to do intimate partials or work up to wild circus rope, whether you want to self-suspend or prefer partnered rope, you need to start somewhere, and this is that place.
We make it possible to accomplish this in one day by assuming you come already comfortable tying suspension-ready harnesses. **See prerequisites below.**
Presenter Bios
SuspendDisbelief (she/her) is a queer, non-monogamous submissive and emotional masochist. An exhibitionistic chaos goblin, she can often be found tying herself up and cofacilitates education at a rope skill share in the DC area. Using her professional experiences in education and her deeply slutty heart, she provides alternative framings for familiar concepts in edge play, especially for those who, like her, have been repeatedly betrayed by their neurodivergent peculiarities while learning.
AutomataBound (AKA Otto) is a queer, switchy bondage nerd who loves bringing ridiculous concepts to life. They have been in the D.C. scene for ~4 years and currently co-facilitate education at Hitchin’ Bitches.
Nijntje (“nine-cha”) they/them, is a local queer advocate and active member of the DMV kink community. At their day job, Nijntje runs an LGBTQ+ community center where they advocate for queer people, facilitate support groups, and provide community education through LGBTQ+ 101 classes. Nijntje’s educational background is in social work with a minor in the study of women and gender with a special focus on queer theory. After hours, they can be found at the local kink clubs, usually tying or being tied in dynamic rope scenes, being kicked around by their Daddy, and generally slutting it up. Nijntje has been serving on the QINK DC organizer board since January 2025, and is passionate about queer and kinky liberation.
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### Please note that this is an educational event, NOT a play party or a time/place to ask others for play, unless for labbing. Anyone trying to do a scene (this excludes labbing during class) or soliciting others for play will be asked to leave.
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Class Prerequisites – Please Read!
Suspension Curriculum Part 1: Technique Basics
We will be covering gear, basic hangers, and lock-offs as part 1 of our 2-part suspension curriculum! By the end of class, “tops” looking to tie will be able to suspend a bag.
What You Need / Prerequisites
Equipment Prerequisite

Your own rope and a cutting tool (limited extras available).
For uplines, we require synthetic rope without a “core” (as some climbing rope has) that is between 5mm and 6mm in diameter. We will have a few loaners we’ll ask you to use if we are not experienced with your choice.
Ideally POSH rope (a spun polyester), but Nylon, MFP, or dyneema-reinforced jute could work too.
Bring at least 2 ~30 ft uplines.
For harnesses we are most comfortable supervising Jute, Hemp, POSH, MFP, or Nylon. If you plan to use another material, please check with us first.
A bag/backpack to suspend or similar inanimate object.
Suspension-specific gear–again, limited extras available, so please contact us if cost is a concern or you are not sure about your gear. If you are not sure what to get, don’t buy just for this class–we will make recommendations and you can borrow ours.
Rated climbing straps (1–2)
Rated locking pear or oval carabiners (2–6). There should be a number on the side in kilonewtons.
Rated rigging plate or sturdy suspension ring
Optional: something to draw on/write notes with. No phones during class.

Technical Skill Prerequisites
For all of these, it is not sufficient to be able to tie them while looking at a book and thinking hard about each specific step– we ask that you be so comfortable with each that they are somewhat embedded in your muscle memory and don’t take up a lot of your attention/brain space to tie. We also ask that you have tied these successfully on the specific partner you are attending with (which could be yourself).

You must be comfortable tying a non-collapsing single-column tie that leaves a bight (one example is a Somerville bowline). You should also be able to connect rope.
Harness Knowledge: Both upper and lower body harnesses should feel and appear structurally sound to the instructor:
Tensioned and locked well enough to stay in place without excessive deformation under load
Built with increased surface area to distribute load (e.g., doubled lines rather than loading a single wrap)
Structurally sound in terms of frictions and knots
Upper body harnesses might include but are certainly not limited to:

Butterfly harness, Xana harness, Double diamond harness, well-constructed shinju, Tasuki harness, etc
For this class, you may not use a box tie/“TK”. While we strongly prefer chest harnesses that are fully arms-out for this class, if you know this will be a big accessibility concern for you/your tying partner, we just ask that you contact the instructors ahead of time for arms-front/arms-side adaptations.

Lower body harnesses might include, but are not limited to:

Hip harnesses (with doubled/reinforced lines, e.g. drum harness)
“Dragonback” harness
Gunslingers
We prefer that you not use a futomomo or mermaid tie that might create a balance issue, but contact us ahead of time if there is an accessibility concern that makes these necessary.

Completing Part 1 alone does not qualify you to suspend humans to our standards. Many vital suspension safety, equipment, and rigging considerations will be covered in Part 2. We spread it out over 2 classes so as not to overwhelm.
Suspension Curriculum Part 2: Technique Application
Students returning for Part 2 will apply the techniques from Part 1, bridging the gap between suspending objects vs actual humans in real harnesses.
For those who wish to try it, the class will end with a full suspension, either as self-tie or with another consenting human. To make sure your technique is at a level (qualitatively and quantitatively) that we are willing to supervise, we will ask you to “Test In” at the beginning of part 2. If we are not satisfied with the skills check, we will ask you to audit/simply observe the hands-on bits of Part 2. This doesn’t mean you are doing rope wrong. It just reflects our risk profiles as instructors.
2A. Testing In
Part 2 begins with a skills check based on the techniques taught in Part 1 and the harnesses you came prepared with per the prereqs.
*Students will demonstrate:*
1. Suspending a bag using the method taught in Part 1
We will check your hanger and lock-off on your bag.
(Other methods are not necessarily wrong, but we ask that students use our method for ease of supervision.)
2. Your harnesses, tied either on yourself or your partner
We will evaluate whether we feel comfortable supervising you, based on the structural considerations outlined earlier.
We may also ask the people in rope/“bottoms” a few questions to ensure they are ready.
2B. Hangers on harnesses
We’ll evaluate our harnesses for the best hanger type and placement and show several examples of useful placements.
2C. Baby’s first suspension!
One by one, heavily supervised, we’ll get you in the air.
Suspension Curriculum Part 3: Labbing and Q+A
Parts 1 and 2 will bleed into the normal BR free labbing time. We’ll probably make suggestions for improvements to your harnesses or hangers, and the rest of the time will be guided labbing. We can also use that time, depending on need, to teach extra harnesses that might fit people’s needs better.
Suspension Curriculum Part 3: Labbing and Q+A
Parts 1 and 2 will bleed into the normal BR free labbing time. We’ll probably make suggestions for improvements to your harnesses or hangers, and the rest of the time will be guided labbing. We can also use that time, depending on need, to teach extra harnesses that might fit people’s needs better.
Bottom’s Discussion Group
While tops learn about uplines and work on suspending inanimate objects, bottoms will discuss what to know when bottoming for suspension, how to prepare for rope suspension, and other important bottoming information, such as:

Risks/risk management / creating bottoming risk profile
Safety Considerations
Negotiations
Stretching
When In Ropes:

What does suspension feel like?
Communication skills to practice for effective top/bottom communication during a rope scene
Mind/Body Awareness

Q&A

FAQs
Can I attend as a bottom without a partner and get suspended?
Nope! Sorry. If you don’t wish to tie, you may watch without participating. We would very much prefer that tying couples have an existing tying relationship or friendship. If you meet the tying prereqs, and you want to learn to self-suspend, you can absolutely do that.
If I am attending with a rope top, what prerequisites should I meet as a bottom?
We’ll discuss specific safety considerations when it comes to medical conditions, etc, but the most important thing is that you and your partner are comfortable exploring novel situations together and communicating in cases where those novel situations get stressful. You should strongly be on the same page consent-wise. You should have an understanding of how your body reacts under conditions of circulation loss and/or nerve compression. We will also ask you to consent to us touching you if a safety concern comes up (e.g. I need to stop your head from hitting the ground), so if that is not going to be okay with you, you may need to sit the class out. Come fed, hydrated, and well-rested, whatever that means to you.
I’ve already done a suspension or two. Can I still come? Is it worth it?
Yes– provided you are open to learning to do it our way. Learning in person from multiple sources can really help check your technique, aid with imposter syndrome, and keep you accountable to practicing.

This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $15 for Crucible Members and $20 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Interested in teaching for Black Rose?
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*Please note that all potential presenters are subject to vetting.*
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Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Dungeon 101
2026-05-01 19:30 - 23:59, 2026-04-03 19:30 - 23:59 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Dungeon 101 serves as an introduction into public BDSM play. If you have never attended a public BDSM play event, it can be a bit daunting. The Dungeon 101 class is specifically designed to make you feel comfortable at your first public BDSM dungeon event. Attendees and presenters come from a diverse cross section of the community, all orientations, genders and kinks are welcome. You are welcome to come alone, bring a friend or bring a bunch of friends.
From 7:30 until 8:00 PM will be social time. Starting at 8:00 PM, there will be a talk on scene etiquette and an opportunity to learn about the dungeon itself. Directly following will be a “Exploratorium” event until 11:00 PM where you can try and/or experience many different kinds of play scenes. The idea is for it to be a fun evening for everyone!
No advance tickets are available for this event – please plan to arrive early and pay at the door.

$10 with Gateway card,
$25 members with membership card,
$35 all others
More experienced folk come on out after 11:00 PM for Open Play. We ask that everyone except presenters keep their toy bags put away until Open Play starts to avoid confusion. No scenes or play permitted during the Exploratorium.

This is an outreach event, you do not need to be a BR or Crucible member to attend.
In order to foster a learning environment, there is no sex allowed at Dungeon 101, and no alcohol is sold. This applies all night, even during open play after the Exploratorium has concluded.
You must be at least 18 years of age. Government-issued photo ID required for entry.

POSTPONED: BR Gateway - May 2026
2026-04-30 19:45 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Note: The May Gateway is on April 30th May 7th!
Black Rose (BR) Gateway is a great way to get a lot of information about the local kink community before you commit any unintentional faux pax because everyone (except you) knew about the community and social expectations.
We cover topics ranging from from Consent to Privacy, Negotiations to Aftercare, and ensure that everyone is aware of our aggressive stand against certain types of behaviors. You can learn more about what you can expect from BR Gateway by reading:

Thinking about attending Black Rose Gateway (overview of the program)
Gateway Attendee FAQ

BR Gateway and Dungeon 101 work together like a lecture/lab combination class; you can get a lot from attending either one, but you can get a lot more by attending both.
Gateway is in person at The Crucible.

BR Gateway entry is only available for purchase at the door; Dungeon 101 tickets are the same. You cannot purchase D101 entry at BR Gateway.
ASL Interpreters are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks notice.
Email gateway@br.org for more information about this program, or info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its other events.

Torturing Tits and Bits with Carmen Monoxide
2026-04-28 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
This demonstration-based class covers all the various ways to stimulate, hurt, and torment the breast tissue/nipples/chests and genitalia of all body types and parts. This class has a focus on gender inclusivity and creative sadism, with demonstrations and discussion.
Presenter Bio
A former teacher with a lifelong passion for the bizarre and filthy, Carmen Monoxide (she/they) also works as a kink professional, event organizer, sex educator, and relationship coach. She has presented for small, medium, and large events across North America, as well as for university and health care institutions. She founded Femme Fatale, a kink event company, and throws monthly parties in the Washington, DC area. She sometimes takes her clothes off and performs onstage and on camera, and is passionate about helping people overcome fear and shame in order to have authentic, fulfilling, sexy experiences.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Black Rose Presents: Black Rose Fetish Formal
2026-04-24 21:00 - 23:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Join us this month for Black Rose Presents: Black Rose Fetish Formal. RSVP here!
Come one, come all! It’s a night to celebrate our best, most creative and sexy outfits. Leather, latex, pup hoods, whatever you feel you look your best in.
This is an 18+ event!

Black Rose/Crucible Members: $25
Guests:$35
You must be a Crucible or Black Rose member or the guest of a member to attend.
Doors open at 9PM
There will be non-alcoholic beverages available for purchase, and plenty of complementary snacks.
Black Rose seeks to empower the community and celebrates diversity in gender, race, sexual orientation, and abilities. We seek to foster an open and warm environment for all.
Have questions about Black Rose? Find a friendly face at the social and chat them up! Interested in becoming a Black Rose Member? (you totally should) Click here!
Masks are always welcome.

New and Curious Kinksters
2026-04-23 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-03-26 18:30 - 20:00 | Zoom, DC, United States
Black Rose’s New and Curious Kinksters (or NaCK), is a discussion group designed for people who are new(ish) to the scene. While we highly recommend all new kinksters check out Gateway (the first/last Thursday of each month – always the day before D101) and Dungeon 101 (the first Friday of each month) and come with questions about their experiences, it is not required, and we welcome anyone new to kink. Please note NaCK is for asking questions, there will be no presentation or monologuing.
We meet the 4th Thursday of the month from 6:30 to 8:00pm. We are going to try out having virtual NaCK. I know many of us have Zoom fatigue, but this is a more responsible approach. We’ll chat about whatever comes up – everything from “what do I wear to the club?” to “I had this great scene, but this part didn’t go well. What do you suggest?” NaCK has a rotating group of experienced kinksters come in to answer questions, so the discussion is always a little bit different, and we aim to provide a variety of answers from different D/s roles, genders, races, and backgrounds.
If you are still in the beginning of your kink journey, we hope you’ll come join us to ask questions and share advice. We’d love to have you!

Caress, Kick, and Stomp! Jumping into Bootplay with WhompingWillow and MartiPaige
2026-04-21 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Curious about trampling with care or hoping to get a kick in your next scene?
From your converse and your docs to your thigh-high heels, footwear is a common category of fetish and a surprisingly versatile set of toys. We will explore ways to play with sensation, impact, power, and pressure, as well as top ergonomics and scene design.

We will cover far more than how to safely step and stomp on your partner
This class will help you find your right fit:
kicking the shit out
Fuck your partner or fuck them up
as well as top ergonomics and scene design in this walking tour of boot play!
Presenter Bio
MartiPaige (she/her) is a queer, sadomasochistic, orange-flagging switch. She is an internationally recognized presenter, focusing on sharps, edge play, and bottom-focused content, as well as organizing events in Philadelphia (Crave, Deep End), Baltimore (Brave), and the DMV (Fornucopia). Outside of her professional roles in MartiParti Events and The Gritty Group, Marti has a deep passion for power exchange, queer expression, and her extremely spicy kitty, Stormy. Willow is a queer sadomasochistic switch who will never tire of rope, sharps, or pressure points. Equally happy with a goofy, laugh-out-loud or nail-bitingly intense scene, kink is a core part of who he is and what he does. He has a flair for getting others hooked with his approachable, engaging, and always entertaining teaching style. Willow shares his infectious excitement through a wide variety of hands-on classes, and has garnered an international following via online education during the pandemic, which you can see alongside his other shenanigans on Patreon and Fetlife: https://linktr.ee/TheWillowShow

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Setting the Scene: Adding Theatrical Elements to Your Play with Lettera
2026-04-14 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Do you wish your kink scenes and play were more creative? Do you want to plan high concept scenes? Do you want to spice up your sex life? We call it *play* for a reason! Here, we learn from the world of theatre to expand the possibilities of our play. From aesthetic elements such as makeup, costumes, and lighting; emotion heightening aspects such as scene premise, character development, and atmospheric sounds or music; and becoming a true prop *master* by creatively using props or pervertables. The opportunities are endless! Now’s the chance to come be the star of your own play!
Presenter Bio
Lettera, (they/she) has been in the scene for about 5 years now following a post pandemic renaissance where they vowed to go to as many class and events in the community as time and money allowed. A self-ascribed Fairy Kink Mother and Chaos Switch, they have been demo topping knives and impact and teaching for the last two years. Their background in theatre, organizing, and psychology inform both their play and their teachings. You may not recognize them immediately at events because they often can be found in different dramatic makeup looks doing high concept theatrical scenes in many different roles.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Impact 101 with Nytemare
2026-04-07 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
The Introduction to Impact Play 101 is a beginner-level BDSM class designed to provide a safe and accessible introduction to the world of impact play. This unique workshop utilizes pool noodles as demonstration tools, allowing participants to explore various techniques while emphasizing the importance of consent, communication, and safety.
Led by experienced practitioners in a non-judgmental and inclusive environment, this class focuses on the fundamentals of impact play, which involves striking or spanking the body with various implements. By using pool noodles, participants can learn and practice the techniques without causing harm or discomfort to one another.
During the workshop, participants will be introduced to a range of techniques, including light tapping, rhythmic spanking, and more intense impacts. The instructors will demonstrate proper body positioning, wrist action, and targeting to ensure the desired sensation and minimize the risk of injury. They will also emphasize the importance of reading verbal and non-verbal cues from their partners, promoting active consent and open communication.
In addition to teaching impact techniques, the class will cover essential do’s and don’ts regarding where to hit. This includes discussions on sensitive areas to avoid, such as joints, kidneys, spine, and face, and focusing on the safe zones like the buttocks and upper thighs. Understanding the body’s anatomy and limits is crucial in impact play to ensure a consensual and pleasurable experience for both partners.
Safety and consent are paramount throughout the workshop. Participants will learn about negotiation, setting boundaries, and implementing safe words or signals to establish clear communication and maintain a safe and enjoyable play environment. The instructors will also address aftercare, emphasizing the importance of providing comfort and support to participants after an impact scene.
Whether you are new to BDSM or looking to expand your knowledge and skills in impact play, Impact Play 101 offers a welcoming and educational experience. Join us to learn the art of impact play, foster trust and communication, and explore the exhilarating world of BDSM in a safe and consensual manner.
Presenter Bio
I have been active in the kink community since 1998, beginning as a submissive and now as a dominant. I am the happy owner of my boy Len for the past 8 years and enjoy sharing my knowledge with others.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

D/s Discussion Group: Boundaries in Power Exchange
2026-04-06 18:30 - 21:00 | TJ Library, 7415 Arlington Blvd, Falls Church, 22042, United States
RSVP on Fet now!
Come one and all to a group for the discussion of any and all topics D and s. This group is intended to be a resource for people of all levels of experience and, as such, everyone is encouraged to attend. Please bring all questions you may have about D/s, M/s, rituals, victuals, brats, splats, and mats.
The topic of tonight’s discussion is Boundaries in Power Exchange Relationships. Although there is a topic for the discussion, given the intent of this group to be a place for sharing, we will not be strict about keeping to the topic.
For this event, we will be hosting at the Thomas Jefferson Library in West Falls Church. We will be in Meeting Rooms 1 and 2. Light refreshments are permitted in the meeting rooms.
Please RSVP as Going if you want to go!

BR Gateway - April 2026
2026-04-02 19:45 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Black Rose (BR) Gateway is a great way to get a lot of information about the local kink community before you commit any unintentional faux pax because everyone (except you) knew about the community and social expectations.
We cover topics ranging from from Consent to Privacy, Negotiations to Aftercare, and ensure that everyone is aware of our aggressive stand against certain types of behaviors. You can learn more about what you can expect from BR Gateway by reading:

Thinking about attending Black Rose Gateway (overview of the program)
Gateway Attendee FAQ

BR Gateway and Dungeon 101 work together like a lecture/lab combination class; you can get a lot from attending either one, but you can get a lot more by attending both.
Gateway is in person at The Crucible.

BR Gateway entry is only available for purchase at the door; Dungeon 101 tickets are the same. You cannot purchase D101 entry at BR Gateway.
ASL Interpreters are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks notice.
Email gateway@br.org for more information about this program, or info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its other events.

Your PhD in Understanding Submissives with Undergroundsea
2026-03-31 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Take away models and terminology that will help you understand, negotiate, and (for s-types) explain your brand of submission. Learn about (a) 6 types of masochism, (b) 3 core languages of D/s, (c) 5 need centers of submissives, (d) 9 motivation types of service submissives, and (e) 2 distinct types of humiliation play. This class brings together highlights of multiple classes to give a broader picture of how submissives are wired. It often prompts breakthrough discussions for attendees.
Helpful to:

Dominants who wish for a broader understanding of submissives
Submissives who wish to learn models and terminology to examine and articulate their submission

Presenter Bio
Undergroundsea has been in kink for 20+ years. He presents nationally to help people understand kink, especially submission.
He serves on Advisory Board for DomCon BDSM weekend conventions. He previously wrote BDSM columns, represented BDSM on college campuses and mainstream forums, and chaired Austin TNG.
He splits time between Austin and DC. He performed with a DC kinky burlesque/comedy troupe. He helped keep Austin weird by arranging fetish nights where he wrote, performed in, and picked music for fetish shows. BDSM influences his artistic expression in the form of fetish photography, DJing music, dance, writings, and kinky stand-up comedy.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Hair Raising Fun - Electro Play! with Alixzander and PupKismet
2026-03-24 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Do you feel a tingle in the air? It’s electric! Electro-play is one of the most versatile styles of kink, but most folks only scratch the surface. This class explores electro play from the technology to the technical, with the goal to expand your electrical horizons. Curious how to use electro-play for sex? Want to make your shocks more painful? Want to make the most out of a cheap TENS unit? Then this highly charged class is for you!

Presenter Bio
Devious & Delightful, Vibrant & Violent. Alixzander is a sadomasochistic switch, with a penchant for the dark, wild, and insane. They enjoy sensory deprivation, putting cocks in their mouth, needles to the head, having fun things put in them, electrocuting boys, and much much more.
An internationally recognized educator, Alixzander is one of the founders of Queer Identifying n Kinky (QINK), Crucible Rendezvous, and The Queer Dude’s Party, which are monthly parties held at The Crucible in Washington, DC. They are the former Education Director of Black Rose, and are currently on staff for Camp Crucible, Cruciblecon, Fornucopia, Femme Fatale Co., and CLAW.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Suffering as a Service with MartiPaige
2026-03-17 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Service can be far more than a hot cup of coffee and a shiny pair of boots. Slave Marti will explore the idea of suffering, physically or emotionally, as an act of service. We will discuss headspace, practical approaches to intense experiences, and how to explore what all “counts” as service and what is meaningful service for you and your dynamic.
Purpose of this class is to look at service from a different PoV. No supplies needed. And for any skill level.
Presenter Bio
MartiPaige (she/her) is a queer, sadomasochistic, orange-flagging switch. She is an internationally recognized presenter, focusing on sharps, edge play, and bottom-focused content, as well as organizing events in Philadelphia (Crave, Deep End), Baltimore (Brave), and the DMV (Fornucopia). Outside of her professional roles in MartiParti Events and The Gritty Group, Marti has a deep passion for power exchange, queer expression, and her extremely spicy kitty, Stormy.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org
