Black Rose

Brats vs. Cunts: Navigating Playful Resistance and Respect in BDSM with ChaoticElle
2026-02-10 20:00 - 21:30 (America/New_York) | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Brattiness can add a spark of playful resistance to BDSM dynamics, but where’s the line between being a fun brat and crossing into unpleasant or disrespectful behavior? This class dives into the art of consensual brattiness, exploring how to communicate boundaries, maintain respect, and avoid disruptive actions that undermine trust. We’ll also tackle the stigma surrounding brats, celebrating their unique role in kink dynamics and how they can enhance connection and creativity in play. Whether you’re a brat, a brat-tamer, or just curious about incorporating this dynamic, this session will help you embrace the fun while fostering respect and consent.
Presenter Bio
Chaotic Elle (she/they) is the founder of The SexEd We Missed, where they offer inclusive pleasure-focused sex education through 1:1 coaching, workshops, and community learning spaces. Elle holds a Master’s degree in Sexual Health and brings years of experience teaching both vanilla and kink-focused content. They’ve led sessions at kink camps, consulted with sexual health nonprofits across the globe, and trained medical professionals on how to have better conversations about sex. Their teaching blends evidence-based info empowerment, care, and a commitment to unlearning shame—whether they’re talking about pain, power, pleasure, or the messy in-between.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

CANCELED: Tickle SIG play party
2026-02-14 12:00 - 17:00 | Tickle SIG Herndon location, Herndon, VA, United States
Come laugh with us!
We ask all participants to review the rules and “What to Expect at a TickleSIG” party in the Tickle DC – Washington Metro Area Ticking group.
Tickle SIG party begins at noon and goes til 5pm on the 2nd Saturday of each month. Bring a pot luck dish – maybe even something inspired by Thanksgiving – and your toy bag.
No alcohol, smoking or drugs are permitted, and you must be fully vaccinated for COVID.
Whether you are new to tickling or experienced, you are welcome to join in on the fun.

Black Rose Munch
2026-02-17 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-02-24 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-03-03 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-03-10 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-03-17 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-03-24 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-03-31 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-04-07 18:30 - 20:00 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Join us before Tuesday Education for our BYOD (Bring Your Own Dinner) Munch! Bring a brown bag from home or your favorite takeout to the Crucible and get to know people before class. Come enjoy food, fun discussions, and meet like-minded folks.

The Ins and Outs of Strap-On Sex with Jamie Joy
2026-02-17 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Grab your harness and get ready to learn the ins and outs of strap-on sex! Whether you are just getting started or have been strapping for years, this space is for you. Topics will include: picking the right harness and toy, communication and dirty talk, positions for giver & receiver, stimulation techniques, toy additions, and more! You will leave feeling prepared and confident to harness the power of your strap. This class is open to all genders, sexualities, and experience levels. Come and play!
Presenter Bio
Jamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish certified sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy, consent, and pleasure through community orgynizing. They have been educating on a wide range of topics related to sex and sexuality for the past 10+ years with experience in K-12 schools, health clinics, college campuses, adult sex shops, national conferences, BDSM dungeons, non-profits, community organizations, and more. Jamie Joy loves to stay up late, throw an unforgettable party, and teach people about the wonders of fisting and fire play. They are always excited to connect and collaborate – find them on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website www.jamiejoy.com

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Fist Me Baby One More Time: Fisting 101 with Jamie Joy
2026-02-24 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Are you curious about fisting? Do you love to fist or be fisted? Come join us for an unforgettable learning experience. This space is perfect for fisting newbies as well as folks looking to stretch their game. Get ready to dive deep into the tenants of fisting, hole-istic preparation, techniques, double penetration, aftercare, and more!
There will be a LIVE DEMONSTRATION to guide participants through the art of fisting with a talented demo bottom.
Bring your hands, holes, & red hankies – and get ready for a fistful of fun!
Presenter Bio
Jamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish certified sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy, consent, and pleasure through community orgynizing. They have been educating on a wide range of topics related to sex and sexuality for the past 10+ years with experience in K-12 schools, health clinics, college campuses, adult sex shops, national conferences, BDSM dungeons, non-profits, community organizations, and more. Jamie Joy loves to stay up late, throw an unforgettable party, and teach people about the wonders of fisting and fire play. They are always excited to connect and collaborate – find them on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website www.jamiejoy.com

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

New and Curious Kinksters
2026-02-26 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-03-26 18:30 - 20:00 | Zoom, DC, United States
Black Rose’s New and Curious Kinksters (or NaCK), is a discussion group designed for people who are new(ish) to the scene. While we highly recommend all new kinksters check out Gateway (the first/last Thursday of each month – always the day before D101) and Dungeon 101 (the first Friday of each month) and come with questions about their experiences, it is not required, and we welcome anyone new to kink. Please note NaCK is for asking questions, there will be no presentation or monologuing.
We meet the 4th Thursday of the month from 6:30 to 8:00pm. We are going to try out having virtual NaCK. I know many of us have Zoom fatigue, but this is a more responsible approach. We’ll chat about whatever comes up – everything from “what do I wear to the club?” to “I had this great scene, but this part didn’t go well. What do you suggest?” NaCK has a rotating group of experienced kinksters come in to answer questions, so the discussion is always a little bit different, and we aim to provide a variety of answers from different D/s roles, genders, races, and backgrounds.
If you are still in the beginning of your kink journey, we hope you’ll come join us to ask questions and share advice. We’d love to have you!

CANCELED: Black Rose Presents: Black Rose Beatdown Bash
2026-02-27 21:00 - 23:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Join us this month for Black Rose Presents: Black Rose Beatdown Bash. RSVP here!
Get in the ring and knock ’em out! We’re ditching the v-day blues for a night full of black and bruise!
This is an 18+ event!

Black Rose/Crucible Members: $25
Guests:$35
You must be a Crucible or Black Rose member or the guest of a member to attend.
Doors open at 9PM
There will be non-alcoholic beverages available for purchase, and plenty of complementary snacks.
Black Rose seeks to empower the community and celebrates diversity in gender, race, sexual orientation, and abilities. We seek to foster an open and warm environment for all.
Have questions about Black Rose? Find a friendly face at the social and chat them up! Interested in becoming a Black Rose Member? (you totally should) Click here!
Masks are always welcome.

D/s Discussion Group: Funishments in Power Exchange
2026-03-02 18:30 - 21:00 | TJ Library, 7415 Arlington Blvd, Falls Church, 22042, United States
RSVP on Fet now!
Come one and all to a group for the discussion of any and all topics D and s. This group is intended to be a resource for people of all levels of experience and, as such, everyone is encouraged to attend. Please bring all questions you may have about D/s, M/s, rituals, victuals, brats, splats, and mats.
The topic of tonight’s discussion is Funishments in Power Exchange Relationships. They’re like punishments, only fun. Although there is a topic for the discussion, given the intent of this group to be a place for sharing, we will not be strict about keeping to the topic.
For this event, we will be hosting at the Thomas Jefferson Library in West Falls Church. We will be in Meeting Rooms 1 and 2. Light refreshments are permitted in the meeting rooms.
Please RSVP as Going if you want to go!

Community Outreach: Whips Whips and More Whips with Leather Rob
2026-03-03 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Welcome to the wonderful world of whips. From floggers to bullwhips, and quirts to crops. We’re going to go over the wide variety of whips, their history and how to effectively incorporate them into your scenes. As well as discussing their construction and materials and how that relays to the sensations they give.
Presenter Bio
Rob is a whip maker and whip enthusiast who has been in the DMV kink community since moving there in 2018. Coming from rural North Carolina to an amazing hotspot for debauchery, he found himself being drawn more and more to teaching and education. He enjoys working hands-on with others to improve their skills.
This is a community outreach event and attendance is free of charge to current members and folks newer to Black Rose.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

BR Gateway - March 2026
2026-03-05 19:45 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Black Rose (BR) Gateway is a great way to get a lot of information about the local kink community before you commit any unintentional faux pax because everyone (except you) knew about the community and social expectations.
We cover topics ranging from from Consent to Privacy, Negotiations to Aftercare, and ensure that everyone is aware of our aggressive stand against certain types of behaviors. You can learn more about what you can expect from BR Gateway by reading:

Thinking about attending Black Rose Gateway (overview of the program)
Gateway Attendee FAQ

BR Gateway and Dungeon 101 work together like a lecture/lab combination class; you can get a lot from attending either one, but you can get a lot more by attending both.
Gateway is in person at The Crucible.

BR Gateway entry is only available for purchase at the door; Dungeon 101 tickets are the same. You cannot purchase D101 entry at BR Gateway.
ASL Interpreters are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks notice.
Email gateway@br.org for more information about this program, or info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its other events.

Dungeon 101
2026-03-06 19:30 - 23:59, 2026-04-03 19:30 - 23:59 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Dungeon 101 serves as an introduction into public BDSM play. If you have never attended a public BDSM play event, it can be a bit daunting. The Dungeon 101 class is specifically designed to make you feel comfortable at your first public BDSM dungeon event. Attendees and presenters come from a diverse cross section of the community, all orientations, genders and kinks are welcome. You are welcome to come alone, bring a friend or bring a bunch of friends.
From 7:30 until 8:00 PM will be social time. Starting at 8:00 PM, there will be a talk on scene etiquette and an opportunity to learn about the dungeon itself. Directly following will be a “Exploratorium” event until 11:00 PM where you can try and/or experience many different kinds of play scenes. The idea is for it to be a fun evening for everyone!
No advance tickets are available for this event – please plan to arrive early and pay at the door.

$10 with Gateway card,
$25 members with membership card,
$35 all others
More experienced folk come on out after 11:00 PM for Open Play. We ask that everyone except presenters keep their toy bags put away until Open Play starts to avoid confusion. No scenes or play permitted during the Exploratorium.

This is an outreach event, you do not need to be a BR or Crucible member to attend.
In order to foster a learning environment, there is no sex allowed at Dungeon 101, and no alcohol is sold. This applies all night, even during open play after the Exploratorium has concluded.
You must be at least 18 years of age. Government-issued photo ID required for entry.

Board Meeting
2026-03-09 19:30 | Zoom, DC, United States
Please email info@br.org if you would like to attend.

Women’s History Month Special Panel: Spotlighting Dominant Femmes with Noire LeGrande
2026-03-10 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Join us for an engaging panel featuring experienced Dommes responding to community questions on leadership, power, presence, and femme-led dynamics.
Whether you’re Dominant, submissive, switch-curious, partnered, …navigating kink independently…you are welcome to join the discussion.
Expect humor, honesty, practical insight, and plenty of “aha” moments.
Submit your questions for the panel to: @Noire_LeGrande.
Questions will be thoughtfully categorized, and we will address as many of the most common themes as time allows.
We look forward to seeing you for this lively, thoughtful celebration of Women’s History Month.
Presenter Bio
Noire LeGrande is a seasoned facilitator with over 20 years of experience in the public sector, where she has coached, supported, and evaluated adults in developing their skills as effective educators and leaders. Known for her approachable style and empowering presence, Noire is passionate about helping presenters elevate their voice and deliver sessions that audiences enjoy and remember. A long-time member of the kink community, she brings both professional expertise and lived experience to her work supporting emerging educators in alternative spaces.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Tickle SIG play party
2026-03-14 12:00 - 17:00, 2026-04-11 12:00 - 17:00 | Tickle SIG Herndon location, Herndon, VA, United States

Suffering as a Service with MartiPaige
2026-03-17 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Service can be far more than a hot cup of coffee and a shiny pair of boots. Slave Marti will explore the idea of suffering, physically or emotionally, as an act of service. We will discuss headspace, practical approaches to intense experiences, and how to explore what all “counts” as service and what is meaningful service for you and your dynamic.
Purpose of this class is to look at service from a different PoV. No supplies needed. And for any skill level.
Presenter Bio
MartiPaige (she/her) is a queer, sadomasochistic, orange-flagging switch. She is an internationally recognized presenter, focusing on sharps, edge play, and bottom-focused content, as well as organizing events in Philadelphia (Crave, Deep End), Baltimore (Brave), and the DMV (Fornucopia). Outside of her professional roles in MartiParti Events and The Gritty Group, Marti has a deep passion for power exchange, queer expression, and her extremely spicy kitty, Stormy.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Hair Raising Fun - Electro Play! with Alixzander and PupKismet
2026-03-24 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Do you feel a tingle in the air? It’s electric! Electro-play is one of the most versatile styles of kink, but most folks only scratch the surface. This class explores electro play from the technology to the technical, with the goal to expand your electrical horizons. Curious how to use electro-play for sex? Want to make your shocks more painful? Want to make the most out of a cheap TENS unit? Then this highly charged class is for you!

Presenter Bio
Devious & Delightful, Vibrant & Violent. Alixzander is a sadomasochistic switch, with a penchant for the dark, wild, and insane. They enjoy sensory deprivation, putting cocks in their mouth, needles to the head, having fun things put in them, electrocuting boys, and much much more.
An internationally recognized educator, Alixzander is one of the founders of Queer Identifying n Kinky (QINK), Crucible Rendezvous, and The Queer Dude’s Party, which are monthly parties held at The Crucible in Washington, DC. They are the former Education Director of Black Rose, and are currently on staff for Camp Crucible, Cruciblecon, Fornucopia, Femme Fatale Co., and CLAW.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Your PhD in Understanding Submissives with Undergroundsea
2026-03-31 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Take away models and terminology that will help you understand, negotiate, and (for s-types) explain your brand of submission. Learn about (a) 6 types of masochism, (b) 3 core languages of D/s, (c) 5 need centers of submissives, (d) 9 motivation types of service submissives, and (e) 2 distinct types of humiliation play. This class brings together highlights of multiple classes to give a broader picture of how submissives are wired. It often prompts breakthrough discussions for attendees.
Helpful to:

Dominants who wish for a broader understanding of submissives
Submissives who wish to learn models and terminology to examine and articulate their submission

Presenter Bio
Undergroundsea has been in kink for 20+ years. He presents nationally to help people understand kink, especially submission.
He serves on Advisory Board for DomCon BDSM weekend conventions. He previously wrote BDSM columns, represented BDSM on college campuses and mainstream forums, and chaired Austin TNG.
He splits time between Austin and DC. He performed with a DC kinky burlesque/comedy troupe. He helped keep Austin weird by arranging fetish nights where he wrote, performed in, and picked music for fetish shows. BDSM influences his artistic expression in the form of fetish photography, DJing music, dance, writings, and kinky stand-up comedy.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

BR Gateway - April 2026
2026-04-02 19:45 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States

D/s Discussion Group: Boundaries in Power Exchange
2026-04-06 18:30 - 21:00 | TJ Library, 7415 Arlington Blvd, Falls Church, 22042, United States
RSVP on Fet now!
Come one and all to a group for the discussion of any and all topics D and s. This group is intended to be a resource for people of all levels of experience and, as such, everyone is encouraged to attend. Please bring all questions you may have about D/s, M/s, rituals, victuals, brats, splats, and mats.
The topic of tonight’s discussion is Boundaries in Power Exchange Relationships. Although there is a topic for the discussion, given the intent of this group to be a place for sharing, we will not be strict about keeping to the topic.
For this event, we will be hosting at the Thomas Jefferson Library in West Falls Church. We will be in Meeting Rooms 1 and 2. Light refreshments are permitted in the meeting rooms.
Please RSVP as Going if you want to go!

Impact 101 with Nytemare
2026-04-07 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
The Introduction to Impact Play 101 is a beginner-level BDSM class designed to provide a safe and accessible introduction to the world of impact play. This unique workshop utilizes pool noodles as demonstration tools, allowing participants to explore various techniques while emphasizing the importance of consent, communication, and safety.
Led by experienced practitioners in a non-judgmental and inclusive environment, this class focuses on the fundamentals of impact play, which involves striking or spanking the body with various implements. By using pool noodles, participants can learn and practice the techniques without causing harm or discomfort to one another.
During the workshop, participants will be introduced to a range of techniques, including light tapping, rhythmic spanking, and more intense impacts. The instructors will demonstrate proper body positioning, wrist action, and targeting to ensure the desired sensation and minimize the risk of injury. They will also emphasize the importance of reading verbal and non-verbal cues from their partners, promoting active consent and open communication.
In addition to teaching impact techniques, the class will cover essential do’s and don’ts regarding where to hit. This includes discussions on sensitive areas to avoid, such as joints, kidneys, spine, and face, and focusing on the safe zones like the buttocks and upper thighs. Understanding the body’s anatomy and limits is crucial in impact play to ensure a consensual and pleasurable experience for both partners.
Safety and consent are paramount throughout the workshop. Participants will learn about negotiation, setting boundaries, and implementing safe words or signals to establish clear communication and maintain a safe and enjoyable play environment. The instructors will also address aftercare, emphasizing the importance of providing comfort and support to participants after an impact scene.
Whether you are new to BDSM or looking to expand your knowledge and skills in impact play, Impact Play 101 offers a welcoming and educational experience. Join us to learn the art of impact play, foster trust and communication, and explore the exhilarating world of BDSM in a safe and consensual manner.
Presenter Bio
I have been active in the kink community since 1998, beginning as a submissive and now as a dominant. I am the happy owner of my boy Len for the past 8 years and enjoy sharing my knowledge with others.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org
