Board Meeting
2025-03-10 19:30, 2025-04-14 19:30, 2025-05-12 19:30 (America/New_York) | Zoom, DC, United States
Please email info@br.org if you would like to attend.

Black Rose Munch
2025-03-11 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-03-18 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-03-25 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-04-01 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-04-08 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-04-15 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-04-22 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-04-29 18:30 - 20:00 and 1 more date | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Join us before Tuesday Education for our BYOD (Bring Your Own Dinner) Munch! Bring a brown bag from home or your favorite takeout to the Crucible and get to know people before class. Come enjoy food, fun discussions, and meet like-minded folks.

Introduction to Electro Play with Alixzander
2025-03-11 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
Do you feel a tingle in the air? It’s electric! Electro-play is one of the most versatile styles of kink, but most folks only scratch the surface. This class explores electro play from the technology to the technical, with the goal to expand your electrical horizons. Curious how to use electro-play for sex? Want to make your shocks more painful? Want to make the most out of a cheap TENS unit? Then this highly charged class is for you!
Presenter Bio
Devious & Delightful, Vibrant & Violent. Alixzander is a sadomasochistic switch, with a penchant for the dark, wild, and insane. They enjoy sensory deprivation, putting cocks in their mouth, needles to the head, having fun things put in them, electrocuting boys, and much much more.
Alixzander is one of the hosts of Queer Identifying n Kinky (QINK) and Crucible Rendezvous, which are monthly parties held at The Crucible. They are the former Education Director of Black Rose, and is currently on staff for Camp Crucible, Cruciblecon, Fornucopia, Femme Fatale Co., LOBO, TES Fest, and CLAW.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Delving into CNC as a Bottom: Navigating Vulnerability, Trust, and Empowerment with Alisa Millard
2025-03-18 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
Consensual non-consent (CNC) can be an intensely powerful and transformative experience, but it also requires a strong foundation of trust, communication, and emotional awareness. This workshop is designed to guide bottoms in exploring the depth and complexity of CNC play in a safe, reflective, and empowering way.
In this in-person class, we will:

Deshame the desire for CNC play and explore its transformative potential.
Identify what you want to experience from CNC scenes and how to communicate those desires.
Discuss emotional preparation and tools for managing vulnerability during a scene.
Learn practical techniques for building trust with your partner and engaging in CNC safely.
Explore post-scene care strategies to foster empowerment and emotional resilience.

The workshop includes a blend of lecture, audience questions, and interactive exercises designed to encourage reflection and playful exploration. While a basic understanding of CNC is helpful, it is not required to attend. Participants will leave with handouts to support their continued journey of self-discovery and empowerment in CNC dynamics.
Whether you are new to CNC or have some experience, this class will offer you practical tools and insights to deepen your connection to yourself and your partner(s) through consensual non-consent play.
Presenter Bio
Alisa is a Somatica trained sex and relationship coach and the founder of Intimacy Illumination. With a passion for de-shamifying sexual and relationship experiences, Alisa specializes in helping individuals and couples deepen their connections, enhance communication, and explore their desires in a judgment-free environment. As an active member of both the kink and LGBTQIA communities, Alisa brings a unique, inclusive perspective to her work, ensuring that all clients feel seen, respected, and empowered in their journey toward deeper intimacy and self-awareness.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Impact for Bottoms with Meredith
2025-03-25 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
Getting the crap kicked out of you can be cathartic, overwhelming, and liberating. Whether with a paddle, flogger, cane, boots, or fists, it’s a great way to suffer. This class will teach the physical aspects of receiving impact, including how to position yourself, what body parts can take a lot and what needs to be protected, and how to give feedback for a gauge test. We’ll also cover communication during impact play, aftercare, and a few advanced topics. There will be a demo, during which participants are welcome to practice as well. Although this class is primarily for bottoms, tops will find it informative as well, particularly regarding injury mitigation and management.
Presenter Bio
Meredith has been doing kinky stuff for over 20 years. She identifies as queer, a masochist, an s-type, Leather, and an educator. She has been on staff for Black Rose since 2015 and is currently the director of the BR Gateway program.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

New and Curious Kinksters
2025-03-27 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-04-24 18:30 - 20:00 | Zoom, DC, United States
Black Rose’s New and Curious Kinksters (or NaCK), is a discussion group designed for people who are new(ish) to the scene. While we highly recommend all new kinksters check out Gateway (the first/last Thursday of each month – always the day before D101) and Dungeon 101 (the first Friday of each month) and come with questions about their experiences, it is not required, and we welcome anyone new to kink. Please note NaCK is for asking questions, there will be no presentation or monologuing.
We meet the 4th Thursday of the month from 6:30 to 8:00pm. We are going to try out having virtual NaCK. I know many of us have Zoom fatigue, but this is a more responsible approach. We’ll chat about whatever comes up – everything from “what do I wear to the club?” to “I had this great scene, but this part didn’t go well. What do you suggest?” NaCK has a rotating group of experienced kinksters come in to answer questions, so the discussion is always a little bit different, and we aim to provide a variety of answers from different D/s roles, genders, races, and backgrounds.
If you are still in the beginning of your kink journey, we hope you’ll come join us to ask questions and share advice. We’d love to have you!

Impact 101 with Doña NyteMare
2025-04-01 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
The Introduction to Impact Play 101 is a beginner-level BDSM class designed to provide a safe and accessible introduction to the world of impact play. This unique workshop utilizes pool noodles as demonstration tools, allowing participants to explore various techniques while emphasizing the importance of consent, communication, and safety.
Led by experienced practitioners in a non-judgmental and inclusive environment, this class focuses on the fundamentals of impact play, which involves striking or spanking the body with various implements. By using pool noodles, participants can learn and practice the techniques without causing harm or discomfort to one another.
During the workshop, participants will be introduced to a range of techniques, including light tapping, rhythmic spanking, and more intense impacts. The instructors will demonstrate proper body positioning, wrist action, and targeting to ensure the desired sensation and minimize the risk of injury. They will also emphasize the importance of reading verbal and non-verbal cues from their partners, promoting active consent and open communication.
In addition to teaching impact techniques, the class will cover essential do’s and don’ts regarding where to hit. This includes discussions on sensitive areas to avoid, such as joints, kidneys, spine, and face, and focusing on the safe zones like the buttocks and upper thighs. Understanding the body’s anatomy and limits is crucial in impact play to ensure a consensual and pleasurable experience for both partners.
Safety and consent are paramount throughout the workshop. Participants will learn about negotiation, setting boundaries, and implementing safe words or signals to establish clear communication and maintain a safe and enjoyable play environment. The instructors will also address aftercare, emphasizing the importance of providing comfort and support to participants after an impact scene.
Whether you are new to BDSM or looking to expand your knowledge and skills in impact play, Impact Play 101 offers a welcoming and educational experience. Join us to learn the art of impact play, foster trust and communication, and explore the exhilarating world of BDSM in a safe and consensual manner.
Presenter Bio
I have been active in the kink community since 1998, beginning as a submissive and now as a dominant. I am the happy owner of my boy Len for the past 8 years and enjoy sharing my knowledge with others.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

BR Gateway - April 2025
2025-04-03 19:45 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Black Rose (BR) Gateway is a great way to get a lot of information about the local kink community before you commit any unintentional faux pax because everyone (except you) knew about the community and social expectations.
We cover topics ranging from from Consent to Privacy, Negotiations to Aftercare, and ensure that everyone is aware of our aggressive stand against certain types of behaviors. You can learn more about what you can expect from BR Gateway by reading:

Thinking about attending Black Rose Gateway (overview of the program)
Gateway Attendee FAQ

BR Gateway and Dungeon 101 work together like a lecture/lab combination class; you can get a lot from attending either one, but you can get a lot more by attending both.
Gateway is in person at The Crucible.

BR Gateway entry is only available for purchase at the door; Dungeon 101 tickets are the same. You cannot purchase D101 entry at BR Gateway.
ASL Interpreters are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks notice.
Email gateway@br.org for more information about this program, or info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its other events.

D/s Discussion Group: Boundaries in Power Exchange
2025-04-07 18:30 - 21:00 | TJ Library, 7415 Arlington Blvd, Falls Church, 22042, United States
RSVP on Fet now!
Come one and all to a group for the discussion of any and all topics D and s. This group is intended to be a resource for people of all levels of experience and, as such, everyone is encouraged to attend. Please bring all questions you may have about D/s, M/s, rituals, victuals, brats, splats, and mats.
The topic of tonight’s discussion is Boundaries in Power Exchange Relationships. Although there is a topic for the discussion, given the intent of this group to be a place for sharing, we will not be strict about keeping to the topic.
For this event, we will be hosting at the Thomas Jefferson Library in West Falls Church. We will be in Meeting Rooms 1 and 2. Light refreshments are permitted in the meeting rooms.
Please RSVP as Going if you want to go!

Hands Based Impact with Caramel_Sutra
2025-04-08 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
The human hand has evolved from supporting walking on all fours, to grasping small objects, to swinging a flogger. Despite how versatile our hands are, when it comes to impact they are often only used as a warm-up tool.
Whether you’re interested in light impact or more intense scenes, this class will prepare you to start incorporating your hands as a primary impact tool.
What you’ll learn:

Hand anatomy
Useful hand shapes for impact
Different grip types + uses
Using your hands like your favorite toys
Efficiency & ergonomics

Come as you are—this class is open to all genders, orientations, and experience levels. This workshop is perfect for those who are curious about BDSM, beginners wanting to learn more, or anyone looking to add more variety to their kink.
Presenter Bio
Caramel_Sutra (He/Him) is a queer POC extrovert currently based in the DMV area. He takes inspiration from music and science with a heavy splash of sadism to create exciting and fun scenes. It’s been almost two decades since he found his home in the kink, alt lifestyle, and queer communities, and is showing no signs of slowing down. He finds joy in bringing people together and creating spaces through community organizing. Outside of the kink community, you can find him playing bass guitar, practicing acroyoga and circus arts, and lifting weights around to appease his inner himbo.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Tickle SIG play party
2025-04-12 12:00 - 17:00, 2025-05-10 12:00 - 17:00 | Tickle SIG Herndon location, Herndon, VA, United States
Come laugh with us!
We ask all participants to review the rules and “What to Expect at a TickleSIG” party in the Tickle DC – Washington Metro Area Ticking group.
Tickle SIG party begins at noon and goes til 5pm on the 2nd Saturday of each month. Bring a pot luck dish – maybe even something inspired by Thanksgiving – and your toy bag.
No alcohol, smoking or drugs are permitted, and you must be fully vaccinated for COVID.
Whether you are new to tickling or experienced, you are welcome to join in on the fun.

Flogging Essentials with Danielle
2025-04-15 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
This class will cover the essentials of flogging in BDSM, emphasizing safety, communication, and technique. It includes demonstrations and instructional time with various floggers, followed by lab time. Attendees who would like to utilize lab time are encouraged to bring their own floggers and someone to practice with.
Presenter Bio
Danielle has been an active member of the local BDSM community for over 15 years. Danielle volunteers at The Crucible, and has taught previous classes for Black Rose. She is a regular presenter at Dungeon 101, where she frequently demonstrated sensation play techniques for several years. She also co-hosts the Queer Mixers at Camp Crucible with Alixzander.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Much Denser Than Bacon: A Casual Class on Canes and Caning with Pet Emily
2025-04-22 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
Ah, the noble cane. Far greater than a mere stick, the cane is a superb tool for recreational bottom whackery, one that can draw out whimpers of fear and squeals of delight with the merest swish through the air. Not as clumsy or random as a paddle; an elegant implement, for a more perverted age. But for both new and seasoned impact players and spankos alike, the world of canes and caning can often seem intimidating, incomprehensible, or just plain snobbish. Let’s address those concerns head-on! Among other topics, we’ll be covering the different types and categories of canes, providing ideas of potential caning scenes, and offering insights into a vast array of caning styles and techniques. Pet Emily will work her little tail off to dispel apprehensions, to provide reliable knowledge and resources, and to encourage and empower you to confidently incorporate canes into your play. So, whether you’re a cane-curious newcomer or a lifelong enthusiast, this is the class for you!
Presenter Bio
Pet Emily (she/they) is a trans and non-binary girl-pet-pony-puppy-thingy, the gleefully collared slave of Chaotic Kat, and an irrepressibly enthusiastic kinkster who’s been in and around the DC scene for over ten (non-consecutive) years. Of all the naughty things she loves, caning has always vied for the top spot, firing up her wicked imagination and filling her head with blush-inducing daydreams long before she ever understood why. While exploring those fantasies in reality, she’s gained broad knowledge and experience on both sides of the slash and both ends of the cane. As with all the things that bring her joy, she’s eager to share her passion and knowledge with others, and she’s looking forward to dropping the third person and engaging with you all directly. Also, because she’s Pet Emily, she must now apologize profusely for the cheap shot at paddles in the class description. Paddles are wonderful tools, her arse-nal is full of ones that she adores, and you may rest assured that she’ll be in trouble for making such a snarky remark (even in the service of a geeky reference).
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Black Rose Presents: Fetish Formal
2025-04-25 21:00 - 23:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Join us this month for Black Rose Presents: The Black Rose Fetish Formal
Welcome to The Black Rose, come show off your amazing outfits. This is a chance to break out your best leathers, latex, onesie’s and pup hoods. Roll in and walk down our red carpet!
Feeling extra good about your outfit? at 1045 we will open the HYPE LANE. Strut your stuff while we celebrate your amazing look.
Take a minute to capture that fabulous outfit in the Photo room. A person or group will be allowed to enter the room to take some snap shots. Our BR Staff will be checking to make sure no one is in the photo room that hasn’t consented to do so.

This is an 18+ event!
Black Rose/Crucible Members: $25
Guests:$35
You must be a Crucible or Black Rose member or the guest of a member to attend.
Doors open at 9PM
There will be non-alcoholic beverages available for purchase, and plenty of complementary snacks.
Black Rose seeks to empower the community and celebrates diversity in gender, race, sexual orientation, and abilities. We seek to foster an open and warm environment for all.
Have questions about Black Rose? Find a friendly face at the social and chat them up! Interested in becoming a Black Rose Member? (you totally should) Click here!
Masks are always welcome.

Rythym and Bruise with NotSoVeganRob
2025-04-29 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
Music is a powerful tool you can use to elevate your scenes, set a vibe, or give a soundtrack for your kinky performance. So put on your dancing boots, grab your toy bag, and let’s turn some butts into instruments.
Presenter Bio
Rob is a whip maker and whip enthusiast who has been in the DMV kink community since moving there in 2018. Coming from rural North Carolina to an amazing hotspot for debauchery, he found himself being drawn more and more to teaching and education. He enjoys working hands-on with others to improve their skills.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

BR Gateway - May 2025
2025-05-01 19:45 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States

D/s Discussion Group: Expectations in Power Exchange
2025-05-05 18:30 - 21:00 | TJ Library, 7415 Arlington Blvd, Falls Church, 22042, United States
RSVP on Fet now!
Come one and all to a group for the discussion of any and all topics D and s. This group is intended to be a resource for people of all levels of experience and, as such, everyone is encouraged to attend. Please bring all questions you may have about D/s, M/s, rituals, victuals, brats, splats, and mats.
The topic of tonight’s discussion is Expectations and Measures of Success in D/s. Power exchange in particular is one of those things people think they can be “bad at”. But how do you get good? What does “good” even mean? Although there is a topic for the discussion, given the intent of this group to be a place for sharing, we will not be strict about keeping to the topic.
For this event, we will be hosting at the Thomas Jefferson Library in West Falls Church. We will be in Meeting Rooms 1 and 2. Light refreshments are permitted in the meeting rooms.
Please RSVP as Going if you want to go!

Meet The Candidates
2025-05-06 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Come one, come all to an informative affair: Meet the Candidates Night!
This is YOUR chance to learn more about your potential future Board Members Arbiter, and Ombudsman. You have a voice, use it to ask the candidates about their community values and what they see for the future of Black Rose.
Ask your questions so you can be an informed voter for this year’s elections.
