Black Rose Munch
2025-02-04 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-02-18 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-02-25 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-03-04 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-03-11 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-03-18 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-03-25 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-04-01 18:30 - 20:00 (America/New_York) | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Join us before Tuesday Education for our BYOD (Bring Your Own Dinner) Munch! Bring a brown bag from home or your favorite takeout to the Crucible and get to know people before class. Come enjoy food, fun discussions, and meet like-minded folks.

Eating Out with Carmen Monoxide
2025-02-04 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
In this course, we’ll go over classic and creative methods for orally warming up, bringing to climax, and cooling down your partner’s vagina or ass.
Presenter Bio
A former teacher with a lifelong passion for the bizarre and filthy, Carmen Monoxide (she/they) also works as a kink professional, event organizer, sex educator, and relationship coach. She has presented for small, medium, and large events across North America. She founded Femme Fatale, a kink event company, and throws monthly parties in the Washington, DC area. She sometimes takes her clothes off and performs onstage and on camera, and is passionate about helping people overcome fear and shame in order to have authentic, fulfilling, sexy experiences.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

BR Gateway - February 2025
2025-02-06 19:45 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Black Rose (BR) Gateway is a great way to get a lot of information about the local kink community before you commit any unintentional faux pax because everyone (except you) knew about the community and social expectations.
We cover topics ranging from from Consent to Privacy, Negotiations to Aftercare, and ensure that everyone is aware of our aggressive stand against certain types of behaviors. You can learn more about what you can expect from BR Gateway by reading:

Thinking about attending Black Rose Gateway (overview of the program)
Gateway Attendee FAQ

BR Gateway and Dungeon 101 work together like a lecture/lab combination class; you can get a lot from attending either one, but you can get a lot more by attending both.
Gateway is in person at The Crucible.

BR Gateway entry is only available for purchase at the door; Dungeon 101 tickets are the same. You cannot purchase D101 entry at BR Gateway.
ASL Interpreters are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks notice.
Email gateway@br.org for more information about this program, or info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its other events.

Tickle SIG play party
2025-02-08 12:00 - 17:00, 2025-03-08 12:00 - 17:00 | Tickle SIG Herndon location, Herndon, VA, United States
Come laugh with us!
We ask all participants to review the rules and “What to Expect at a TickleSIG” party in the Tickle DC – Washington Metro Area Ticking group.
Tickle SIG party begins at noon and goes til 5pm on the 2nd Saturday of each month. Bring a pot luck dish – maybe even something inspired by Thanksgiving – and your toy bag.
No alcohol, smoking or drugs are permitted, and you must be fully vaccinated for COVID.
Whether you are new to tickling or experienced, you are welcome to join in on the fun.

Board Meeting
2025-02-10 19:30, 2025-03-10 19:30 | Zoom, DC, United States
Please email info@br.org if you would like to attend.

CANCELLED: Black Rose Munch
2025-02-11 18:30 - 20:00 | DC
THIS MUNCH IS CANCELLED DUE TO WEATHER.
Join us before Tuesday Education for our BYOD (Bring Your Own Dinner) Munch! Bring a brown bag from home or your favorite takeout to the Crucible and get to know people before class. Come enjoy food, fun discussions, and meet like-minded folks.

CANCELLED: Blow Jobs 101 with MoProblems
2025-02-11 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
THIS CLASS IS CANCELLED DUE WEATHER. THIS CLASS IS RESCHEDULED FOR 13 MAY.
Class Description
From anniversary presents to strangers in airport bathrooms, Blowjobs are a ubiquitous part of our sexual culture, and frankly can be fun to give and receive, but most of us never get any instruction on how to best suck dick, or what to do with our hands.This class is intended to review the basics of providing or receiving fellatio, and create a space for the sharing of best practices on how to pleasure partners with penises.
We’ll go over the art of giving a blowjob, starting before anything is ever in a mouth to how to know if you’ve finished. As penis are as diverse as those of us who have them, we’ll go over factors that can impact pleasure for both giver and receiver, including basic anatomy of a penis. We’ll also go over communication before during and after a blowjob so you can continue to improve your skills as an oral top or bottom.
No supplies are needed for this class, but feel free to bring your favorite phallus or phallic objects to practice on. This is not a deepthroating class, so no need to break out the bananas or eggplants, though they’re always welcome.
Whether you’re a cocksucker extraordinaire or have just recently been a little curious about penises, this class aims to provide you with something new. All skill levels, experiences, and anatomies are welcome.
Presenter Bio
Mo or @MoProblems (any/all) is a queer genderfluid kinkster entering a second year in the local DC scene. Mo has been exploring what it means to exist on both sides of the slash. A frequent student of Black Rose, Mo is a new presenter with a decade of experience as a trainer and coach, and nearly 20 years of experience with both sides of a blowjob.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

The Ins and Outs of Strap-On Sex with Jamie Joy
2025-02-18 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
Grab your harness and get ready to learn the ins and outs of strap-on sex! Whether you are just getting started or have been strapping for years, this space is for you. Topics will include: picking the right harness and toy, communication, positions for giver & receiver, toy additions, g-spot and p-spot techniques, and more! You will walk away feeling prepared and confident to harness the power of your strap.
Presenter Bio
Jamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies and kinky perversions. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy, pleasure, and consent through community organizing. As a triple fire sign Sagittarius, Jamie Joy is passionate about dancing while eating, playing sadistically with flaming floggers, and teaching people about the wonders of anal fisting. They are always excited to connect with new friends; you can find them on Instagram @badjewboy or email them at jamiejoyeducation@gmail.com.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Booty Basics: Anal For Anyone with Jamie Joy
2025-02-25 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
Come find out why the butt is the universal wonder of the world in this fun and informative class on anal pleasure! Whether you are new to butt stuff or a regular through the back door, this space is for you. We will discuss anatomy, preparation, communication, prostate techniques, toys, positions, and more! You will leave ready to begin or advance your journey through the booty. This class is open to all genders, sexualities, and experience levels. Class will include a live demo.
Presenter Bio
Jamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies and kinky perversions. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy, pleasure, and consent through community organizing. As a triple fire sign Sagittarius, Jamie Joy is passionate about dancing while eating, playing sadistically with flaming floggers, and teaching people about the wonders of anal fisting. They are always excited to connect with new friends; you can find them on Instagram @badjewboy or email them at jamiejoyeducation@gmail.com.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

New and Curious Kinksters
2025-02-27 18:30 - 20:00, 2025-03-27 18:30 - 20:00 | Zoom, DC, United States
Black Rose’s New and Curious Kinksters (or NaCK), is a discussion group designed for people who are new(ish) to the scene. While we highly recommend all new kinksters check out Gateway (the first/last Thursday of each month – always the day before D101) and Dungeon 101 (the first Friday of each month) and come with questions about their experiences, it is not required, and we welcome anyone new to kink. Please note NaCK is for asking questions, there will be no presentation or monologuing.
We meet the 4th Thursday of the month from 6:30 to 8:00pm. We are going to try out having virtual NaCK. I know many of us have Zoom fatigue, but this is a more responsible approach. We’ll chat about whatever comes up – everything from “what do I wear to the club?” to “I had this great scene, but this part didn’t go well. What do you suggest?” NaCK has a rotating group of experienced kinksters come in to answer questions, so the discussion is always a little bit different, and we aim to provide a variety of answers from different D/s roles, genders, races, and backgrounds.
If you are still in the beginning of your kink journey, we hope you’ll come join us to ask questions and share advice. We’d love to have you!

Black Rose Presents: Fire & Ice
2025-02-28 21:00 - 23:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Join us this month for Black Rose Presents: Fire & Ice
Your sex is on fire … wait that’s not we want to set on fire … people … we want to set people on fire. The frozen tundra outdoors has got the ice part covered. Come join us for some fun temperature play this month.

This is an 18+ event!
Black Rose/Crucible Members: $25
Guests:$35
You must be a Crucible or Black Rose member or the guest of a member to attend.
Doors open at 9PM
There will be non-alcoholic beverages available for purchase, and plenty of complementary snacks.
Black Rose seeks to empower the community and celebrates diversity in gender, race, sexual orientation, and abilities. We seek to foster an open and warm environment for all.
Have questions about Black Rose? Find a friendly face at the social and chat them up! Interested in becoming a Black Rose Member? (you totally should) Click here!
Masks are always welcome.

D/s Discussion Group: Funishments in Power Exchange
2025-03-03 18:30 - 21:00 | TJ Library, 7415 Arlington Blvd, Falls Church, 22042, United States
RSVP on Fet now!
Come one and all to a group for the discussion of any and all topics D and s. This group is intended to be a resource for people of all levels of experience and, as such, everyone is encouraged to attend. Please bring all questions you may have about D/s, M/s, rituals, victuals, brats, splats, and mats.
The topic of tonight’s discussion is Funishments in Power Exchange Relationships. They’re like punishments, only fun. Although there is a topic for the discussion, given the intent of this group to be a place for sharing, we will not be strict about keeping to the topic.
For this event, we will be hosting at the Thomas Jefferson Library in West Falls Church. We will be in Meeting Rooms 1 and 2. Light refreshments are permitted in the meeting rooms.
Please RSVP as Going if you want to go!

Community Outreach: Topping with Disabled or Injured Body with Skeleton_Bitch
2025-03-04 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
All tops have bodies that need care and have limits. Images of a top and instructions on how to top for impact rarely have disabled and/or injured bodies in mind. How do you blissfully beat someone if you have limited mobility? How do you wonderfully overwhelm a bottom if you feel close to fainting every time you go up and down? In this class, we will cover different ways to adjust topping to fit the varying needs of a variety of bodies. The class will finish with a demo.
Presenter Bio
Skeleton_Bitch (they/he/she), aka Lizzie, aka Picasso of Pain, is a disabled, genderfluid dominant/sadist/artist. They are one of the hosts of the monthly queer-centered play party, @qinkdc, and the Director of Education for @br_BlackRose. They have been participating in kink since 2006 and part of the DMV kink community since 2022. They have been navigating the nuances of being kinky while living with multiple chronic illnesses and being autistic with ADHD (AuDHD) and what that means for them as a dominant, top, and organizer. They also love artistic, high-concept scenes that bring various media and forms of expression to play.
This is a community outreach event and attendance is free of charge to current members and folks newer to Black Rose.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

BR Gateway - March 2025
2025-03-06 19:45 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States

Introduction to Electro Play with Alixzander
2025-03-11 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
Do you feel a tingle in the air? It’s electric! Electro-play is one of the most versatile styles of kink, but most folks only scratch the surface. This class explores electro play from the technology to the technical, with the goal to expand your electrical horizons. Curious how to use electro-play for sex? Want to make your shocks more painful? Want to make the most out of a cheap TENS unit? Then this highly charged class is for you!
Presenter Bio
Devious & Delightful, Vibrant & Violent. Alixzander is a sadomasochistic switch, with a penchant for the dark, wild, and insane. They enjoy sensory deprivation, putting cocks in their mouth, needles to the head, having fun things put in them, electrocuting boys, and much much more.
Alixzander is one of the hosts of Queer Identifying n Kinky (QINK) and Crucible Rendezvous, which are monthly parties held at The Crucible. They are the former Education Director of Black Rose, and is currently on staff for Camp Crucible, Cruciblecon, Fornucopia, Femme Fatale Co., LOBO, TES Fest, and CLAW.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Delving into CNC as a Bottom: Navigating Vulnerability, Trust, and Empowerment with Alisa Millard
2025-03-18 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
Consensual non-consent (CNC) can be an intensely powerful and transformative experience, but it also requires a strong foundation of trust, communication, and emotional awareness. This workshop is designed to guide bottoms in exploring the depth and complexity of CNC play in a safe, reflective, and empowering way.
In this in-person class, we will:

Deshame the desire for CNC play and explore its transformative potential.
Identify what you want to experience from CNC scenes and how to communicate those desires.
Discuss emotional preparation and tools for managing vulnerability during a scene.
Learn practical techniques for building trust with your partner and engaging in CNC safely.
Explore post-scene care strategies to foster empowerment and emotional resilience.

The workshop includes a blend of lecture, audience questions, and interactive exercises designed to encourage reflection and playful exploration. While a basic understanding of CNC is helpful, it is not required to attend. Participants will leave with handouts to support their continued journey of self-discovery and empowerment in CNC dynamics.
Whether you are new to CNC or have some experience, this class will offer you practical tools and insights to deepen your connection to yourself and your partner(s) through consensual non-consent play.
Presenter Bio
Alisa is a Somatica trained sex and relationship coach and the founder of Intimacy Illumination. With a passion for de-shamifying sexual and relationship experiences, Alisa specializes in helping individuals and couples deepen their connections, enhance communication, and explore their desires in a judgment-free environment. As an active member of both the kink and LGBTQIA communities, Alisa brings a unique, inclusive perspective to her work, ensuring that all clients feel seen, respected, and empowered in their journey toward deeper intimacy and self-awareness.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Impact for Bottoms with Meredith
2025-03-25 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
Getting the crap kicked out of you can be cathartic, overwhelming, and liberating. Whether with a paddle, flogger, cane, boots, or fists, it’s a great way to suffer. This class will teach the physical aspects of receiving impact, including how to position yourself, what body parts can take a lot and what needs to be protected, and how to give feedback for a gauge test. We’ll also cover communication during impact play, aftercare, and a few advanced topics. There will be a demo, during which participants are welcome to practice as well. Although this class is primarily for bottoms, tops will find it informative as well, particularly regarding injury mitigation and management.
Presenter Bio
Meredith has been doing kinky stuff for over 20 years. She identifies as queer, a masochist, an s-type, Leather, and an educator. She has been on staff for Black Rose since 2015 and is currently the director of the BR Gateway program.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Impact 101 with Doña NyteMare
2025-04-01 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Class Description
The Introduction to Impact Play 101 is a beginner-level BDSM class designed to provide a safe and accessible introduction to the world of impact play. This unique workshop utilizes pool noodles as demonstration tools, allowing participants to explore various techniques while emphasizing the importance of consent, communication, and safety.
Led by experienced practitioners in a non-judgmental and inclusive environment, this class focuses on the fundamentals of impact play, which involves striking or spanking the body with various implements. By using pool noodles, participants can learn and practice the techniques without causing harm or discomfort to one another.
During the workshop, participants will be introduced to a range of techniques, including light tapping, rhythmic spanking, and more intense impacts. The instructors will demonstrate proper body positioning, wrist action, and targeting to ensure the desired sensation and minimize the risk of injury. They will also emphasize the importance of reading verbal and non-verbal cues from their partners, promoting active consent and open communication.
In addition to teaching impact techniques, the class will cover essential do’s and don’ts regarding where to hit. This includes discussions on sensitive areas to avoid, such as joints, kidneys, spine, and face, and focusing on the safe zones like the buttocks and upper thighs. Understanding the body’s anatomy and limits is crucial in impact play to ensure a consensual and pleasurable experience for both partners.
Safety and consent are paramount throughout the workshop. Participants will learn about negotiation, setting boundaries, and implementing safe words or signals to establish clear communication and maintain a safe and enjoyable play environment. The instructors will also address aftercare, emphasizing the importance of providing comfort and support to participants after an impact scene.
Whether you are new to BDSM or looking to expand your knowledge and skills in impact play, Impact Play 101 offers a welcoming and educational experience. Join us to learn the art of impact play, foster trust and communication, and explore the exhilarating world of BDSM in a safe and consensual manner.
Presenter Bio
I have been active in the kink community since 1998, beginning as a submissive and now as a dominant. I am the happy owner of my boy Len for the past 8 years and enjoy sharing my knowledge with others.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

BR Gateway - April 2025
2025-04-03 19:45 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States

D/s Discussion Group: Boundaries in Power Exchange
2025-04-07 18:30 - 21:00 | TJ Library, 7415 Arlington Blvd, Falls Church, 22042, United States
RSVP on Fet now!
Come one and all to a group for the discussion of any and all topics D and s. This group is intended to be a resource for people of all levels of experience and, as such, everyone is encouraged to attend. Please bring all questions you may have about D/s, M/s, rituals, victuals, brats, splats, and mats.
The topic of tonight’s discussion is Boundaries in Power Exchange Relationships. Although there is a topic for the discussion, given the intent of this group to be a place for sharing, we will not be strict about keeping to the topic.
For this event, we will be hosting at the Thomas Jefferson Library in West Falls Church. We will be in Meeting Rooms 1 and 2. Light refreshments are permitted in the meeting rooms.
Please RSVP as Going if you want to go!
