Black Rose

Black Rose Munch
2026-10-06 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-09-29 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-09-22 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-09-15 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-09-08 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-09-01 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-08-25 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-08-18 18:30 - 20:00 (America/New_York) and 1 more date | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Join us before Tuesday Education for our BYOD (Bring Your Own Dinner) Munch! Bring a brown bag from home or your favorite takeout to the Crucible and get to know people before class. Come enjoy food, fun discussions, and meet like-minded folks.

D/s Discussion Group: Bratting in Power Exchange
2026-10-05 18:30 - 21:00 | TJ Library, 7415 Arlington Blvd, Falls Church, 22042, United States
RSVP on Fet now!
Come one and all to a group for the discussion of any and all topics D and s. This group is intended to be a resource for people of all levels of experience and, as such, everyone is encouraged to attend. Please bring all questions you may have about D/s, M/s, rituals, victuals, brats, splats, and mats.
The topic of tonight’s discussion is Vetting your Information Sources. There is so much information, online and off, about power exchange. How do you know what’s right, or what’s right for you? Although there is a topic for the discussion, this group is meant to be a place for sharing and we will not be strict about keeping to the topic.
For this event, we will be hosting at the Thomas Jefferson Library in West Falls Church. We will be in Meeting Rooms 1 and 2. Light refreshments are permitted in the meeting rooms.
Please RSVP as Going if you want to go!

Dungeon 101
2026-10-02 19:30 - 23:59, 2026-09-04 19:30 - 23:59 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Dungeon 101 serves as an introduction into public BDSM play. If you have never attended a public BDSM play event, it can be a bit daunting. The Dungeon 101 class is specifically designed to make you feel comfortable at your first public BDSM dungeon event. Attendees and presenters come from a diverse cross section of the community, all orientations, genders and kinks are welcome. You are welcome to come alone, bring a friend or bring a bunch of friends.
From 7:30 until 8:00 PM will be social time. Starting at 8:00 PM, there will be a talk on scene etiquette and an opportunity to learn about the dungeon itself. Directly following will be a “Exploratorium” event until 11:00 PM where you can try and/or experience many different kinds of play scenes. The idea is for it to be a fun evening for everyone!
No advance tickets are available for this event – please plan to arrive early and pay at the door.

$10 with Gateway card,
$25 members with membership card,
$35 all others
More experienced folk come on out after 11:00 PM for Open Play. We ask that everyone except presenters keep their toy bags put away until Open Play starts to avoid confusion. No scenes or play permitted during the Exploratorium.

This is an outreach event, you do not need to be a BR or Crucible member to attend.
In order to foster a learning environment, there is no sex allowed at Dungeon 101, and no alcohol is sold. This applies all night, even during open play after the Exploratorium has concluded.
You must be at least 18 years of age. Government-issued photo ID required for entry.

BR Gateway - October 2026
2026-10-01 19:45 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Black Rose (BR) Gateway is a great way to get a lot of information about the local kink community before you commit any unintentional faux pax because everyone (except you) knew about the community and social expectations.
We cover topics ranging from from Consent to Privacy, Negotiations to Aftercare, and ensure that everyone is aware of our aggressive stand against certain types of behaviors. You can learn more about what you can expect from BR Gateway by reading:

Thinking about attending Black Rose Gateway (overview of the program)
Gateway Attendee FAQ

BR Gateway and Dungeon 101 work together like a lecture/lab combination class; you can get a lot from attending either one, but you can get a lot more by attending both.
Gateway is in person at The Crucible.

BR Gateway entry is only available for purchase at the door; Dungeon 101 tickets are the same. You cannot purchase D101 entry at BR Gateway.
ASL Interpreters are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks notice.
Email gateway@br.org for more information about this program, or info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its other events.

BR Presents: September 2026
2026-09-25 21:00 - 23:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Join us this month for BR Presents: . RSVP here!

This is an 18+ event!

Black Rose/Crucible Members: $25
Guests:$35
You must be a Crucible or Black Rose member or the guest of a member to attend.
Doors open at 9PM
There will be non-alcoholic beverages available for purchase, and plenty of complementary snacks.
Black Rose seeks to empower the community and celebrates diversity in gender, race, sexual orientation, and abilities. We seek to foster an open and warm environment for all.
Have questions about Black Rose? Find a friendly face at the social and chat them up! Interested in becoming a Black Rose Member? (you totally should) Click here!
Masks are always welcome.

New and Curious Kinksters
2026-09-24 18:30 - 20:00, 2026-08-27 18:30 - 20:00 | Zoom, DC, United States
Black Rose’s New and Curious Kinksters (or NaCK), is a discussion group designed for people who are new(ish) to the scene. While we highly recommend all new kinksters check out Gateway (the first/last Thursday of each month – always the day before D101) and Dungeon 101 (the first Friday of each month) and come with questions about their experiences, it is not required, and we welcome anyone new to kink. Please note NaCK is for asking questions, there will be no presentation or monologuing.
We meet the 4th Thursday of the month from 6:30 to 8:00pm. We are going to try out having virtual NaCK. I know many of us have Zoom fatigue, but this is a more responsible approach. We’ll chat about whatever comes up – everything from “what do I wear to the club?” to “I had this great scene, but this part didn’t go well. What do you suggest?” NaCK has a rotating group of experienced kinksters come in to answer questions, so the discussion is always a little bit different, and we aim to provide a variety of answers from different D/s roles, genders, races, and backgrounds.
If you are still in the beginning of your kink journey, we hope you’ll come join us to ask questions and share advice. We’d love to have you!

I Want To, But I Can’t with Meredith
2026-09-22 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
It’s easy to get frustrated when our desires don’t align with our physical or mental capacity. Submissives may long to endure more pain or provide specific acts of service, dominants may want to top at a certain intensity level or engage in specific forms of control – but chronic illness, pain, disability, fatigue, neurodivergence, trauma responses, and mental health challenges can get in the way. We’ll explore the grief, shame, and vulnerability that arises when this happens, and discuss practical adaptations, communication strategies, and creative renegotiation. Attendees will examine internalized ableism and self-induced pressure to “perform,” and leave with tools to honor ourselves and our partners exactly as we are.
Presenter Bio
Meredith has been doing kinky stuff for over 20 years. She identifies as queer, a masochist, an s-type, Leather, and an educator. She has been on staff for Black Rose since 2015 and is currently the director of the BR Gateway program.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Rage, Anger Based Scenes and Ordeals: Working with Rage and Anger with MonsingorX
2026-09-15 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
This class will discuss a variety of ways to play with rage to a positive result with a touch on spiritual elements, and various pitfalls and concerns. The class will include examples of multiple ordeals, risks and various methods for dealing with anger in scene.
Presenter Bio
MonsignorX has been involved in BDSM for over 20 years primarily, but not exclusively, in submissive roles. He tends to be very philosophical in nature and teaches as much to learn from those who attend as to lecture. Over the years, he has taught a number of male submissive oriented classes such as: THE GENTLEMAN SURRENDERS TO THE LADY, Spiritual Archetypes for Submissive Men, and Rage, Strength and Spirituality. He believes strongly that submission is a form of power and in all sides of a relationship having boundaries and power.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Board Meeting
2026-09-14 19:30, 2026-08-10 19:30 | Zoom, DC, United States
Please email info@br.org if you would like to attend.

Tickle SIG play party
2026-09-12 12:00 - 17:00, 2026-08-08 12:00 - 17:00 | Tickle SIG Herndon location, Herndon, VA, United States
Come laugh with us!
We ask all participants to review the rules and “What to Expect at a TickleSIG” party in the Tickle DC – Washington Metro Area Ticking group.
Tickle SIG party begins at noon and goes til 5pm on the 2nd Saturday of each month. Bring a pot luck dish – maybe even something inspired by Thanksgiving – and your toy bag.
No alcohol, smoking or drugs are permitted, and you must be fully vaccinated for COVID.
Whether you are new to tickling or experienced, you are welcome to join in on the fun.

Annual Meeting
2026-09-08 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Description
Our Annual “Year In Review and What’s Ahead” plus special awards will be held from 8:00 to 9:30. This event is free for members.

CURRENT MEMBERS ONLY, MEMBERSHIP VERIFIED

Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Intensive: The Art of Intense Scenes
2026-09-05 13:00 - 18:00 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Please join us on Saturday, September 5th from 1:30 PM to 6:00 PM for Black Rose Education Intensive Series: The Art of Intense Scenes with CarmenMonoxide!
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Introducing the Black Rose Education Intensives Series
Black Rose Education Intensive Series is a new quarterly program built for deeper dives into kink. These extended sessions pair in-depth instruction with hands-on practice and lab time, creating space for intentional learning and skill development beyond a single evening class.
Schedule
1:00 pm: Doors open
1:30 pm – 3:00 pm: Deep Impact
3:00 – 3:30 pm: Break
3:30 pm – 5:00 pm: Advanced Scene Planning
5:00 – 6:00 pm: Labbing

Intensive Class Descriptions
Class 1: Deep Impact
If you crave deep thuddy sensation, are seeking more extensive bruising, or want your partner to feel how much you care about them all the way down to their bones, this class is for you! Carmen will discuss marking, anatomical and safety concerns for scenes with deep thud, as well as general best practices and techniques. We’ll demonstrate intense rough body, how certain types of bondage and body positioning can help strikes penetrate further into the body, and which toys and pervertables can be enlisted to bring that extra oomph to your impact.
Class 2: Advanced Scene Planning
Planning and executing a high-concept scene can take a lot of thought and effort. This class will help participants looking to gain confidence with preparing and executing an intense or important scene by walking attendees through how to analyze, negotiate and plan. Participants should plan to bring a scene idea to workshop. An experienced instructor will help attendees refine their scene concepts and collaborate with other participants to leave class with a solid idea of how to make their fantasy a reality.
Presenter Bio
A former teacher with a lifelong passion for the bizarre and filthy, Carmen Monoxide (she/they) also works as a kink professional, event organizer, sex educator, and relationship coach. She has presented for small, medium, and large events across North America, as well as for university and health care institutions. She founded Femme Fatale, a kink event company, and throws monthly parties in the Washington, DC area. She sometimes takes her clothes off and performs onstage and on camera, and is passionate about helping people overcome fear and shame in order to have authentic, fulfilling, sexy experiences.

This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $15 for Crucible Members and $20 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
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Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

BR Gateway - September 2026
2026-09-03 19:45 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States

Community Outreach: Negotiations with Evelyn
2026-09-01 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
You’ve agreed to play with someone. Great! Now what? Negotiation is one of the key tools we have for getting what we want out of our play. In this workshop, we’ll discuss various strategies and approaches for getting everyone on the same page, as well as working on ways to ask for what we want.
Presenter Bio
Evelyn (@blushingflower) has been part of the DC scene for over 15 years. A Black Rose EBM and the current Vice President, Evelyn is a regular presenter at Dungeon 101 as well as a Crucible manager and Board member.

This is a community outreach event and attendance is free of charge to current members and folks newer to Black Rose.
To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

BR Presents: The Renaissance
2026-08-28 21:00 - 23:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Join us this month for BR Presents: . RSVP here!
Calling all warriors, wenches and creatures of the realm. This night we gather to embark on an epic quest of lust and debauchery. A play party filled with BDSM of new, and costumes of old.
This is an 18+ event!

Black Rose/Crucible Members: $25
Guests:$35
You must be a Crucible or Black Rose member or the guest of a member to attend.
Doors open at 9PM
There will be non-alcoholic beverages available for purchase, and plenty of complementary snacks.
Black Rose seeks to empower the community and celebrates diversity in gender, race, sexual orientation, and abilities. We seek to foster an open and warm environment for all.
Have questions about Black Rose? Find a friendly face at the social and chat them up! Interested in becoming a Black Rose Member? (you totally should) Click here!
Masks are always welcome.

Boldly Bottoming: A Bottom Centered Discussion Group with thatsubnextdoor
2026-08-25 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Boldly Bottoming follows a discussion-based format where those who identify as bottoms can come together to discuss the various topics we face. Our discussions look to foster community, share knowledge, and promote safety in the community.
First, attendees will check in and consider discussion topics worth bringing into the space. Second, we will do a round of introductions and select topics. After setting group norms and rules, we will open up the floor to discuss the topics most voted on by attendees. Finally, we will close the group intentionally and discuss next steps.
No skill level is needed and all experience levels are welcome. We do ask that only bottoms or switches attend. We love our tops, but it is important to keep this group focused on bottoms learning from one another.
Presenter Bio
My name is Kathy, and I’m a girl who identifies as a service-oriented bottom within the kink community. My presentation style is rooted in service and a deep devotion to leaving a positive impact on the world by creating spaces where others can explore their own authenticity. I am a systemic sex therapist, live in Philadelphia with my angelic cat, Jojo, and have been active in my local kink community since November 2022. In addition to hosting Boldly Bottoming, I also teach on topics such as service, rope, bottoming, and negotiation in my local scene. I have guest lectured at the graduate level and hosted kink-focused workshops for therapists seeking to become more kink-aware.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Give It To Me! Maintaining Dominance While Being Fucked with Skeleton_Bitch
2026-08-18 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Dominating and topping are not one and the same and dominance doesn’t end when you’re the one being penetrated. In this workshop, we’ll explore how to maintain authority, control, and presence even while your body is receiving. Through discussion, demos, and guided exercises, we’ll unpack strategies for commanding the pace, tone, and energy of the scene, whether you’re with one partner or many.
Participants will learn:

Techniques for staying in charge while in physically “submissive” positions
Negotiation tools to establish clear expectations and boundaries
Body language, voice, and psychological strategies that reinforce dominance
Ways to navigate shifting power dynamics with confidence and creativity

This class is designed for Dominants, Switches, and anyone curious about holding power in positions that are often coded as passive. This class is also for submissives who like being the active partner. All genders, orientations, and experience levels are welcome. Come ready to challenge assumptions, sharpen your skills, and claim your dominance, no matter what your body is doing.
Presenter Bio
Skeleton_Bitch (they/them), aka Lizzie, aka Picasso of Pain, is a disabled, genderfluid dominant/sadist/artist. They are one of the hosts of the monthly queer-centered play party, @qinkdc, and the Director of Education for @br_BlackRose. They have been participating in kink since 2006 and part of the DMV kink community since 2022. They have been navigating the nuances of being kinky while living with multiple chronic illnesses and being autistic with ADHD (AuDHD) and what that means for them as a dominant, top, and organizer. They also love artistic, high-concept scenes that bring various media and forms of expression to play.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org

Leather Care 101 and Bootblacking Basics with nocturneBlue
2026-08-11 20:00 - 21:30 | The Crucible, 412 V St NE, Washington, DC, United States
Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description
Bring your leathers and saddle soap! Or don’t! Leather care 101 is a class for folks looking to maintain their current leathers or learn a little for future leather adventures. Every leather enthusiast has their routine and preferences for leather care. As such, this class will not be the ultimate guide on leather care, but suggestions from one enthusiast with a few years of experimentation.
If you have a pair of boots or a harness that’s been begging you to condition it, this is your opportunity to get a second opinion and work on your leathers in a class setting. This class will be a short lecture, followed by a workshop for folks to mess about with their leathers and ask questions. Some basic leather care supplies will be available, but supplies are limited. There will also be a small selection of leather goods provided by Blue for folks to clean if they don’t have any leathers themselves.
By the end of this class, participants will have an understanding of the function and use of leather care supplies (soaps, conditioners, oils, brushes, polish, miscellaneous supplies). Participants will know the difference in some types of leather and their care needs. Finally, participants will have time to clean their leathers (optional) with time to ask questions about their specific leathers.
Attendee supplies- OPTIONAL, presenter will supply limited extras.

Leathers (cuffs, boots, any gear you want to clean).
Leather care supplies
This is a class designed for beginners, but is open to all levels of experience.

Presenter Bio
nocturneBlue (they/them) is a queer leather worker and part time dog out of the DMV with a passion for leather care. They’ve participated in the DMV scene since 2023 and seek to share their perspective as a leather worker from a non-kink background. As a chronic horse-girl, Blue has been cleaning and maintaining leathers for over a decade. Owner of Nocturne Blue Leather, they are passionate about making high quality leathers for all folks. Their favorite color is blue and they like leather.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.
This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.
Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.
All ticket sales are at the door.
Email info@br.org for more information about Black Rose or its events.
If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org
