Delving into CNC as a Bottom: Navigating Vulnerability, Trust, and Empowerment with Alisa Millard

Class Description

Consensual non-consent (CNC) can be an intensely powerful and transformative experience, but it also requires a strong foundation of trust, communication, and emotional awareness. This workshop is designed to guide bottoms in exploring the depth and complexity of CNC play in a safe, reflective, and empowering way.

In this in-person class, we will:

• Deshame the desire for CNC play and explore its transformative potential.
• Identify what you want to experience from CNC scenes and how to communicate those desires.
• Discuss emotional preparation and tools for managing vulnerability during a scene.
• Learn practical techniques for building trust with your partner and engaging in CNC safely.
• Explore post-scene care strategies to foster empowerment and emotional resilience.

The workshop includes a blend of lecture, audience questions, and interactive exercises designed to encourage reflection and playful exploration. While a basic understanding of CNC is helpful, it is not required to attend. Participants will leave with handouts to support their continued journey of self-discovery and empowerment in CNC dynamics.

Whether you are new to CNC or have some experience, this class will offer you practical tools and insights to deepen your connection to yourself and your partner(s) through consensual non-consent play.

Presenter Bio

Alisa is a Somatica trained sex and relationship coach and the founder of Intimacy Illumination. With a passion for de-shamifying sexual and relationship experiences, Alisa specializes in helping individuals and couples deepen their connections, enhance communication, and explore their desires in a judgment-free environment. As an active member of both the kink and LGBTQIA communities, Alisa brings a unique, inclusive perspective to her work, ensuring that all clients feel seen, respected, and empowered in their journey toward deeper intimacy and self-awareness.

Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.

All ticket sales are at the door.

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Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

If you have questions or would like to request a class topic, please email education@br.org