The Architecture of Aftercare with ChaoticElle

Accessibility accommodations are available upon request to accessibility@br.org. Please give us two weeks’ notice.

Class Description

Aftercare is a deliberate and collaborative process that begins before the scene and extends long after it ends. In this class, we will explore physical, emotional, and psychological dimensions of care across roles, bodies, and dynamics. Whether you’re topping, bottoming, switching, or playing solo, you’ll leave with concrete strategies for planning and negotiating meaningful aftercare. We’ll also address time-delayed needs, communication challenges, and making care plans specific to you and your scene.

Presenter Bio

Chaotic Elle (she/they) is the founder of The SexEd We Missed, where they offer inclusive pleasure-focused sex education through 1:1 coaching, workshops, and community learning spaces. Elle holds a Master’s degree in Sexual Health and brings years of experience teaching both vanilla and kink-focused content. They’ve led sessions at kink camps, consulted with sexual health nonprofits across the globe, and trained medical professionals on how to have better conversations about sex. Their teaching blends evidence-based info empowerment, care, and a commitment to unlearning shame—whether they’re talking about pain, power, pleasure, or the messy in-between.

To minimize disruption, there will be no admittance after 8:30.

This is not a play party. Do not attempt to engage in scenes or solicit others for play, except for labbing as part of a workshop-style class.

Tickets are $5 for Black Rose Members and Members of Reciprocal Groups with their Membership Card and $10 for non-members.

All ticket sales are at the door.

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